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First School Dance Advice
So, throughout my entire life, I have been a pretty quiet and reserved boy, who says very little at school and just really plays video games and sports with close friends. Right now, I am a junior in high school. So, dance haven't really been an issue for me as I will never ask anyone and since i'm the boy, won't usually get asked. But the problem is now, my school is have a Sadie Hawkins dance, (a sadie hawkins dance is when the girl asks the boy instead of vice versa) so I'm fair game to ask. What i feared happened, and today at lunch a girl asked me to go. Some people may like this, but i am not one of those people. I couldn't say no so now i am going. The problem here is that a. I don't know how to act as I have never been, b. i can't dance like at all c. the "group" we are supposed to go with I know literally no one. The idea of meeting new people and going to a dance does not appeal to me in the slightest. What i'm basically asking is how do I get myself ready, and what do I do. I'm completely lost, and my friends are no help because none of them are going.
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The dancing part is easy. No one really dances anymore and she probably wont expect you to know how. Dancing is basically like hugging and moving back and forth. If your really nervous and she asks you to dance just watch how other people are doing it before you hit the floor. Its pretty easy to catch on. Its more about just having fun. The girl that asked you must like you, are you guys friends, do you like her? What's the situation with that? Maybe if you get to know her a little better, you guys might have a lot in common. I agree with you about meeting new people. I'm not a fan of that either. But sometimes when you put yourself out there and don't be afraid you might end up having fun. Don't stress about it. If you know her pretty good just tell her how you feel and I'm sure she will understand. She picked you, remember. There must be a reason.
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