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Am i doing the right thing


Question Posted Monday January 18 2016, 12:16 pm

HI there i guess you probably right well i texted him today and askd hm to let me know when he have time..reason why i asked is cause i want to collect my belongings that is still there and then after that i probably wont see or talk to him nymore cause that is what he wants..i feel like im doing the right thing coz he is mayb moving on idk so i dnt wnt reminders of me there in his work place

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missundersmock answered Monday January 18 2016, 9:11 pm:
Thats ok if your there JUST to collect your things. Keep it civil, do not get emotional, your allowed to be friendly but do NOT attempt to make any plans or talk about "seeing them later" or play into any of his games if he attempts to get YOU to set something up for when you "might be free" youve broken up and not thats really not appropriate talk. That kind of talk insinuates that he'd like to see you again and stay connected which (if you did) you could easily turn into a booty call or "side piece" when hes bored, and thats not the kind of relationship you need. (((i mean unless thats what you want here lol)))


good luck ; )

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