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Will he ever get some courage and ask me out?
im 32 and he is 27 he is a store manager at a grocery store...from the looks of things he is doing quite well for himself. well ive had a couple of customers ask me was I his girlfriend..i said no.....and he looked up at me and then put his head down....anyway he is shorter than me im 5'3 and he is 5'0 and he is fluffy ( I normally don't date men of that stature ) but if he was to ask me out id give him a chance, he seems like a very nice guy..he picks on me constantly, he knows I like to cook so now he asks me what am I going to cook him......lmao.....even my brother was like that dude wants you.....well today I went up to him and I was like, hey and he turned around and stared at me with this shocked/stunned looked on his face and I said here and I gave him a folded piece of paper with my name and number on it and I walked away...since I did that do you think he will finally get some courage and ask me out? thanks
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UPDATE: well no phone call, how shy can one person be, its been a week no contact, if he was gonna call, he woulda been did that.....so i've came to this conclusion, he lost my number, he isn't interested and I misread everything, he doesn't want a relationship, he is already in a relationship and wasn't man enough to tell me, he is gay or he finds me intimidating. my friend told me to confront him...well im not going to do that, and I dont have time for games either, all I know is he just missed out on a great catch...thanks for all of your help
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I cant even pretend to know his psyche and whats going on in his mind and in his life to know whether he will respond to this or not. But it does seem as if he has some interest. You don't know what may be holding him back. Sometimes a person thinks they have some physical defect or condition which if seen by others would make them undesireable. For example:Guys who are too hairy think no gal will ever accept them like that. He may be shy be he may also never have at his age yet had a real relationship and have dated any one girl for a while. And going out just once with a person doesnt count in relationship experience. Society seems to place leadership responsibility mainly on the male and as such, he feels it. He may feel lacking if he's never dated and never had sex with a girl, something most guys will be so embarassed about that they would rather not ask anyone out. So if you like him, I would ask him if you could call him and get his number. You're going to have to take the initiative here and make the first moves until you find him becoming comfortable with you and gaining enough trust to tell you if there is something that worries him. So you could wait a week. If a guy is interested, he'll likely call within that time unless as I explained, there are reasons in his life that at least in his mind are holding him back from making any moves to ask a girl out.
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