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I've messed things up and I don't know how to fix them!
If you have seen my previous posts, you will know that there is a boy that I really like, and I still really like him, but something happened that messed up everything. A boy (let's call him Ethan) liked me, and after he told me that I kind of liked him too, which was true. He now thinks that I completely like him and I don't know where we stand. I didn't realise it would be taken this far. He now constantly texts me, and I completely regret telling him that I kind of liked him. I really like him as a friend and don't want to hurt his feelings, but I don't want it to turn into anything. I am starting to think that I felt as if I liked because he liked me! I have no feelings for him in that way and feel awful. I was caught up in the moment, and now it is giving me very bad anxiety. I still like the other boy from before in truth, but I don't think I will ever have a chance with him. How do I stop the situation from forming into something more with out hurting Ethan, and still pursue the other boy who I like? Please help, as I am so stuck on what to do!
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Talk to Ethan face to face. Tell him that you like him as a friend but you don't have feelings any stronger than that to be BF/GF and your are feeling by the way he is constantly in contact with you that he may think you feel differently.
Girls your age like receiving verification from For next time, enjoy the attention but dont automatically tell a guy you like him cus they will assume it means you are attracted to them over other males, like a girlfriend. You can specify that you only like them as a friend, nothing more. And dont be hard on yourself, this is a common issue when we first start being aware of the opposite sex and having any feelings and wanting to try dating and relationships.
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