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Does a guy ever say jokingly he's in love with you?
Hi, he's my guy colleague and we have become a really good friends. But he flirts and jokes and tease around a lot basically with everyone coz he's hilarious and everyone likes him. But with me, it just feels different, we just flirt back and forth and I reckon he likes it when I flirt back. He told my another colleague today in front me that,'she loves me, she is in love with me?' and I said no its the other way around. Sometimes he just picks on me and I tell him, I'm not your wife, he says,u wish with this flirty smile. Today he also told my colleague jokingly, briefly, I'm in love with xxx( mentioned my name). Plus he sings around me a lot in front me, lightly touches my shoulder but that's all. He's not creepy though. So I just wonder, why is he like this? Does he really like me or what? we're are both in our late 20's. Thank u all!
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A guy with the ability to do all that he is doing is not shy. So my opinion is that not only is he a big flirt, but he is a big tease and not serious at all. If a guy who has no trouble flirting and talking to girls is still single, its because he wants to be or hasn't found someone he's seriously interested in enough to ask out. A person can jokingly say just about anything and not really mean it. Guys dont tend to use the L word casually and only use it if they mean it. So if you seriously think this guy is in love with you, then how is this relationship working out for you, is it satisfactory for you? Do it feel like a real relationship. I am going to even go as far as saying there's a chance his Sun sign is Leo and Leo s tend to like being the center of attention and his outrageous flirting is one way to do it and saying jokingly that he loves any one person is another way to draw attention to him. He thrives on it. If everyone in the office started ignoring him, you'd probably witness the most bummed out employee you've ever seen.
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