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follow up question about ex bf on new year


Question Posted Tuesday January 5 2016, 6:56 am

Hi sorry to bother you constantly im sure you have read my post bout my ex on new years eve and what happend as well as wheather or not i will hear from him again..today i just missed hm so so much i ended up texting hm saying and i quote "Hey mister mister thought id pass by and check if you still alive..was cleaning and saw i still have your book and hope u still hav my band must wash it out neh #JustJoking anyway hope u algoodies and stuff and not working too hard,enjoy the rest of your week,hope to hear and see you soonest,take care" so that was my msg to him he got it but did not reply or mayb he deleted it before he read it...i probably wont hear from him anymore hey,im not angry or anythng its just hard..so i gues im finally gna let him go and leave him alone like you said..i just thought id try one last time and see if he would speak to me bt i gues i wl never hear from him again

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missundersmock answered Tuesday January 5 2016, 7:08 am:
well, you probably had a good feeling you wernt gonna hear from him but you did it anyway, and you clearly got to see the results of that, so i dont think theres anything i need to say here.

All you can do is just except it and move on. Not everyone that you cross paths with in life is meant to stay. We're on our own paths and sometimes youll cross the path of someone thats not ready for something YOU are or doesnt view the world in the way you do, or in a healthy enough manner that they can conduct themselves like a decent person would. Theres nothing you can do for someone who just isnt interested, they will have to learn the hard way later with certain things in life as well.

you just keep on working on you, and move forward. When hes ready if ever, he may come back but dont base your life around it. Its ok to continue to care for someone and not be with them. This is called "loving someone from a distance" Wish them well, hope that they improve themselves but not dwelling on them because you have to live your own life still and not just simply existing.

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