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nervous?


Question Posted Monday January 4 2016, 9:43 am

so i kinda like this dude..???
i want to chat with him (text) but i mean like we often chat too but its like maybe few days a chat?? sometimes i wanted to text him but im too nervous... im scared that he'll ignore my message and cant seem to think of a good topic to start the conversation...
any tips on starting the conversation?


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swimmer133 answered Friday January 29 2016, 10:00 pm:
Hi!
I totally know where you're going with this and I can totally relate to you! For me, I started with a simple question and then built on from there. I usually asked him how his day went, or sometimes even a random question like if he's working that day. From there I would bring in different topics. A tip about texting your crush, NEVER and I repeat NEVER text him right away, after he texts. It makes you seem desperate or that his life is more interesting and important than yours. I know it's really hard to not do that, but I've learned from personal experience. Don't be scared to ask him to hang out sometime :)
Good luck!
-Swimmer133

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missundersmock answered Monday January 4 2016, 4:29 pm:
start off with things that make you relatable to each other. Ask how hes doing, how his day has been, tell him what your doing, and make fun of it. Down down to earth, make light jokes and if he tries to make a joke about YOU then own it and say something like "hahaha yeahh every time we talk im always doing laundry i know!"

Act like your doing something that keeps you busy but also says "i have time to kill to talk with you because im waiting for the dryer"

the possibilities are endless really...

good luck..

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