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new years eve pleas help
Hi i recently posted a question about my ex boyfriend on new years and what happend..well the following day i texted hm to say sorry for phoning him and that it wont happen again he must njoy hs weekend..he then texted back and said that he was stuck in the middle of nowhere without diesel so he wasnt in the best mood when i phoned i then asked hw did he get home,he read it but did not reply..later the night i wen on whatsapp and saw that he blocked me from his one number i then inboxd hm on fb and askd if hs whatsapp is working coz i cant see hs number and then he said its cause you did the same thing you just done a few minutes ago so i axd did he block me and he said yes i then asked so what does that mean and he told me it means nothing at all so i said cause now it feels like he dnt wna speak to me anymore nevermind not seeing me..and then he askd me how many platforms do i need to communicate with him and i just said fb and then he told me that wheneva i see his online i text hm and it kinda bothers me so i said sorry and it wont happen again and that i hope im stl gna see hm again this year and stf and then said goodnyt (im just being honest of what i said) he then textd back and said lol stop your shit woman and i askd what am i doing so he said and i quote dyou thinking that im angry at you i just dont want you sending random msgs to my phone everytime im online" i then told hm it sounds like hs angry and il stop my shit and then he replied say you can hear my voice shit your good i think he was being sarcastic there i then said no his text and its woman instincts he read but ddint reply its been 3 days since i last heard from him.i saw he shared a picture on facebook saying if you not losing friends you not growing up..im at the point where im overthinking everything do u think that post was meant for me and that our friendship is over.do you think i will hear from him again he will msg me first? I dnt knw what to do,iv decided to respect hs wishes and not text him anymre and just stay away cz i feel like thats what he wants and i feel like its always a problem when i text hm cz most of the time he just reads and dont reply but he is almost whole day everyday online,mayb you right mayb there is someone else..will i hear from him again and if i do what must i do..i dnt knw what to do anymore help pls
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Yeah i read your other post too and let me just say it sounds like your EX needs to BE you EX. Hes sending you clear cut signs he doesnt want to be in your life anymore and you need to let him go.
It IS true (and this happens ALOT) that people can misunderstand each other because their talking over text and not on the phone. This gets people into trouble ALOT with each other because they cant hear your voice, their intent, or their feelings through a text so NO on your intuition i dont agree with that. your looking at a text having thoughts of your own already about him, and then he says something and all you have in the room with you is your own twisted feelings and misgivings about whats going on so now things seem even WORSE then they were before see?
My policy is that whenever there is what seems like a disagreement between me and someone else, i just CALL THEM, because even though your reading what their saying and it seems all clear, feelings in humans are NOT, they are deep and complicated and in order to fully hear someone out you need to hear their voice because someones voice is full of lots of UNSAID things when your talking to them.
It sounds like your over analyzing, and like he wants to break things off and kinda fade away and your not allowing that to happen and now hes mad about it. Leave him alone ok. Just move on.
And PLEASE PLEASEEE, this is to you and everyone ELSE that talks over text alot. do NOT text when your angry with someone, JUST CALL THEM. Theres too much of a chance that youll misunderstand each other and make things even worse or start a fight where there wasnt one. I go through this alot with people who are overly emotional, and it doesnt mean their bad people, but certain people you just CANT sit there and have "deep" conversations with over text because they view the world differently and NEED to hear the sound of your voice talking to them about certain subjects and not just left with words on a screen.
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good luck.
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