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the question about the friend...


Question Posted Saturday January 2 2016, 12:46 pm

i greatly appreciate your detailed answer, but i think my questions went over your head. im not talking about making random friends at school. ive graduated already and i hate having too many people to talk to. im talking about manifestation with the universe...... law of attraction. i asked for a friend to save my life to come into my life and i have been having endless dreams and visions of him. but my actual question is: how do i act as if he is already in my life when im not able to see him physically or speak to him physically? my feelings for him now seem ordinary, i'm not overly excited like i used to be about him. I dont want to daydream or visualize about him anymore and it feels weird to do so. (which that is how i would be if he was physically here.) i was thinking on acting as if: make an email and send him emails and act like the reason why i cant see or talk to him is because he's extremely busy and he's unpacking since he just moved??????? Or would getting no emails make my mood too low? Should I just think the secone one? idk just a suggestion, but what do you think???

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missundersmock answered Saturday January 2 2016, 8:15 pm:
Well heres the thing, ive read law of attraction books (idk if you have or not) but i dont remember there being anything in there about pretending or dreaming up friends that dont exist and then trying to talk to them. That actually sounds a bit weird to me.

Also, what sense does it make to try to email someone that doesnt exist?? it sounds like your bored or unhappy with your life and your trying to dream things up in order to fulfill some empty part of you.

Laws of attraction only apply and work when you get out there and use them on the people around you that actually exist because those people may know someone you dont yet and then when you go out someone and they happen to have that friends with them or you run into them, will you actually get a result.

I DO believe in laws of attraction, i dont think its just a bunch of hubub but i do think that focusing this much of your time on it isnt going to make it work more for you in the way that your going about it.

If it helps, read more books on the law of attraction, also try the book Thinking fast, thinking slow, and another called Rich dad poor dad. These books will change your life based on the mindset you have demonstrated here with me.

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