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developing feelings and not sure if they are mutual
21/f
So about a week ago I stepped out of my comfort zone and went on a blind date with someone I met online. I have never done this before and I was so worried that he would look nothing like his pictures or be really weird. He picked me up and we went for drinks and it was so easy to talk to him and everything felt so natural. He was very open and said he has met up with 2 other girls about a month ago on a blind date and it was very awkward and nothing ever happened. One red flag i discovered was that he got out of a 2 year engagement about 4 months ago. When he dropped me off he kissed me goodbye and texted me right away saying he had a great time. He lives about 5 hours away but was in my city because all of his family lives here and he has come to my city about 8 times in the past month.... so the next day he wanted to see me again so i invited him over to watch a movie and he met my parents and they thought he was really nice. We just talked, cuddled and watched movies and then he left. He went home the next day and he always texts me and calls me cute and says that he really enjoys my company. Last night he told me that i am welcome to come and visit for a weekend whenever i want, and he also said next time he was in the city that I should come to his family's place and play games with them.
I have been hurt so much in the past and I'm really scared that I'm "catching feelings" way too fast for this guy and I'm trying everything not to develop feelings. It feels as though it's too good to be true and he's just saying all of this to get some action. So I was wondering what everyone else thinks? and also... should i go up and visit him for a weekend?
Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to read and answer this ..
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There is nothing wrong with giving the benefit of the doubt ultimately that's all we ever really do anyway just remember that it's best to take things slow and ultimately let things progress naturally don't force it and a little self control goes a long way. What you don't wanna do is move to fast and burn the potential relationship out.
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