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21/f
So about a week ago I stepped out of my comfort zone and went on a blind date with someone I met online. I have never done this before and I was so worried that he would look nothing like his pictures or be really weird. He picked me up and we went for drinks and it was so easy to talk to him and everything felt so natural. He was very open and said he has met up with 2 other girls about a month ago on a blind date and it was very awkward and nothing ever happened. One red flag i discovered was that he got out of a 2 year engagement about 4 months ago. When he dropped me off he kissed me goodbye and texted me right away saying he had a great time. He lives about 5 hours away but was in my city because all of his family lives here and he has come to my city about 8 times in the past month.... so the next day he wanted to see me again so i invited him over to watch a movie and he met my parents and they thought he was really nice. We just talked, cuddled and watched movies and then he left. He went home the next day and he always texts me and calls me cute and says that he really enjoys my company. Last night he told me that i am welcome to come and visit for a weekend whenever i want, and he also said next time he was in the city that I should come to his family's place and play games with them.
I have been hurt so much in the past and I'm really scared that I'm "catching feelings" way too fast for this guy and I'm trying everything not to develop feelings. It feels as though it's too good to be true and he's just saying all of this to get some action. So I was wondering what everyone else thinks? and also... should i go up and visit him for a weekend?
Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to read and answer this ..
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There is nothing wrong with giving the benefit of the doubt ultimately that's all we ever really do anyway just remember that it's best to take things slow and ultimately let things progress naturally don't force it and a little self control goes a long way. What you don't wanna do is move to fast and burn the potential relationship out.
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Hi. So I was on a site and it said I won an iphone 6. I read the comments and it was real buuut I need a credit card to get it and my dad doesn't have one(NO ONE in my family has one). Anyway I came across this site where I can download fake credit card numbers and CVV codes but I don't know if I should download one. Will I get in trouble if I download a number? I really want that Iphone 6. (link)
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To very specifically answer your question regardless if the ad is a scam or not using any credit card information that is not yours is called theft and fraud and yes you can get in very big trouble local and federal best case is the card info won't even work no one is gonna just give you access to free money and worst case is if it did work the info came from a real person and when they track you you will be arrested so don't do it under any circumstance.
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It was great at first but now any little thing i do he cant stand it or it annoys him. He acts distant till it is time to lay down and even after that he is right back to the distant act. I caught him in a lie the other day by telling me he didnt go to his friends house when he did.He said he didnt want to tell me cause i would be mad. Im so confused because this is never what i expected from him.
Im 21 felmale and he is 27 male (link)
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You have two options here, changing who you are for someone else isn't a viable option. You can either have a straight forward serious conversation with him to figure out what is wrong or you may need to prepare to face the possibility that this relationship has run its course. The truth of the matter is that sometimes people just get tired of each other and some people fake interest in the first place even if they don't realize it. Furthermore sometimes people's true colors are hidden for a while and when they reveal themselves it turns out things aren't as they seem.
Ps. If he thinks you'd be mad he went to his friends house it probably means his sense of independence that everyone needs is compromised and you may need to pull back a little and give him space. Being in a relationship doesn't mean taking over someone's life it just means being a part of it.
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