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She knows I have a crush on her so I hope she knows what she is doing...
Your reply you've sent me was very informative. I appreciate that and you are correct about LDR and her age. This is what I am afraid of that I'll be back into an unrequited love with someone far away.
I don't know why I had the guts to tell her that night that I like her but I guess my mind got so caught up into her because when I told her I'll ask her out if we lived closer she replied back with "It's a shame I live on the other side of the world" on that same day she wanted to talk to me on video chat when I asked her that we should vchat someday. She was so eager to talk to me over video chat (we vchat twice) that it surpised me how quick she wanted to see me when we just met a few weeks ago online.
And that she gave more of the effort to talk to me that it now ended up with her and I talking everyday now.
I have no idea where it is going but we are having fun talking to each other like we are close friends.
We enjoy our company.
She knows my past struggles and I told her today that I need to focus on myself because of my heartbreak. And she encourage me as well because she just got out of a abusive relationship with a man last year.
She wants to focus on herself as well.
Basically we are in the same boat, moving on from the past of bad relationships and learning to love yourself. We have alot in common and we enjoy sharing to each other.
We seem like we've been best friends forever!
I don't want to date many women to find myself and to find who I am looking for...I need to focus on myself.
But now that she is in my life it is hard to stay focus on self love. Because of her talking to me everyday and making each other laugh....I start to crush on her so hard that I can't stop thinking about "does she like me?".
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She may or may not know what she's doing. After all she's 18 and very few of us have that combo of experience + maturity at that age. I was mature as far as I could tell at that age, more serious about how I went after things in life but not when it came to relationships. All we know is what we see in movies, observe from parents or read in romance novels and that I've found doesnt cut it. So lets face it, most of us struggle with how to find a partner and then how to go about nurturing another person, doing right not wrong things. And its its hard at any age we are, its even more so, the younger we are. I wouldnt put high hopes on someone that age. Not against wide age gaps in couples and she is now an adult but a very young one who doesn't really know what path she wants in life yet and in no hurry to choose one. I still think if you hold on to her as a friend but in the meanwhile get your feet wet and gain experience in dating, it'll be all the better for you. As to how to find someone who is looking for a date and is gay, I suggest going to on like dating sites for LGBT or listed as for gays or you can try the general sites and see if they have a listing for sexual orientation as some do, as well as how far away a date can live, I chose no more than 1 hrs drive away, and ones religious orientation if any. I wish you the best.
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