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acting as if and making it feel ordinary.......
i know you shouldnt tell what your intention is, but i dont know how to word it....
......but if youre trying to manifest lets say a friend, how do you act as if if you dont actually have that friend????
or does acting as if actually work??? becuase some people say it does while others say it doesnt. should i just let it go? should i just listen to subliminal message videos on having faith in the universe and being positive energy? should i just act as if i already have that friend, just not hanging out with them?
or acting as if not thoughts but just feelings? feeling now how i would feel if i actually had that friend? idrk.......
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Im not really sure what your asking here....are you asking for help with how to make friends with someone??
If so ill tell you, i was actually popular in high school and ill tell you what i did to create LOTS and LOTS of friends.
What i did was (if the person i wanted to be friends with was popular) i would zero in on them and penetrate their social group slowly over time. OR FIND a way to speak to just them even if its for a moment. Being nice, casually maybe asking if they have a pen you can borrow, making a joke with them that you can laugh over together about, and then keeping the pen. Then LATER while their at lunch with all their friends, walk up to their lunch group and act as if your good friends, act casual, acknowledge everyone around them with a friendly hello, and say "hey i forgot to get you, your pen back the other day! thanks dude! hahaha" and then be like "see ya later!" and smile and walk away.
That persons friends will wonder how you managed to suddenly become so casually friendly "buddy buddy" with him, and they'll see you acting confident and nice and they'll WANT to get to know you. ; )
When people approach you that knows someone you want to know but DONT know, be nice to them too! be friendly, say things that you can bond over, like jokes about something or a compliment.
I was nice to EVERYONE (even friends with other people that didnt like each other) but i just didnt talk about any kind of a friendship i had with that person with the person that hated or annoyed the person i was with. whenever there was someone that alot of people in school liked or "hated" and they knew i knew them and spoke to them before, i would just say things that were neutral about that person.
Lets say you have managed to build up some people that like you but they discover that you also associate with someone that has been rumored to be "weird" or something like that, what you SAY is well i wouldnt know anything about that and thats THEM, that aint me so i dont care" and then giggle it off. DONT talk shit about that person because it may get back around to them and then youll start to get a bad rep. The goal is to just "be cool" with as many people as you can even ones that everyone MIGHT not ness. LIKE but when you need to be able to distance yourself from them and anything that people might see as wrong or questionable see?
If someone comes to YOU talking behind someones back then just simply reply with "damn, i didnt hear anything about that....wow" and then just leave it at that. Your not really giving your opinion on the person, your just stating that you hadnt heard about something they may or may not have done. You cant be caught up or "hung" or anything you didnt say see?
Now how i built my OWN rep in school was i was a match maker. People PAID me to hook them up with other people in the school they liked and alot of the times it WORKED! and i was making sometimes 20 bucks or more a WEEK. I was "the middle man" between someone who had feelings for someone else, and would approach the other person, letting them know that someone here at the school liked them but wasnt sure if they were single and didnt want to cause an "embarrassing scene" for the person and that i was trying to just discreetly help out this friend.
I arranged dates for people outside of school, meet ups, and ultimately matched some couples that turned out to be long term relationships. ; )
Just try to stay positive with people, try your best to stay away from talking behind peoples backs because that could be a set up to get you in trouble with someone, and try to act like your just cool with everyone, and doesnt let negative things get to them.
good luck ; )
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