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how to convince her im worth her love
Okay after I left Georgia I lived with ivory for nine months during that time I got close to all of her family but felt like an out cast during the first few months ivory caught me talking to a chick not in any sort of way bad but she freaked during my stay I did a fake fundraiser because the family forced me to to get money for her parents habits I did what I did for them but about three months into living there (we dated three months long distance before) I had a habit of making small not even rational lies to look better like saying I wasn't asleep and such we had large arguments over this eventually she got pregnant and I did cater to her every whim and got a job but when she was three months pregnant her parents who had been doing this a long time finally got caught using fraud to get prescription meds from hospitals and were arrested and all six children were taken by foster care including ivory I kissed her while tears silently tolled down my face as she walked out of the door the last time I had ever seen her till date I had gone to hospitals and have a large set of medical bills to try and provide for her parents' I spent two long months with no food power or water in a full time job I slept in that house with two pits and a cat feeling fleas crawl my entire body every day went to work with sink washed clothing people could see the bits from fleas all over my body eventually I saved up the money for a bus ticket and went home at this point two months ivory was finally aloud to contact me she wanted to be with me so we tried but we eventually drifted and rumors about me being high and such came to her and she got enraged I ended up long distance dating another girl who contacted her to ask about me and after days of arguing she blocked me and told me I couldn't sign the birth certificate but a week before Katherine was born she told me I could but it was then to late to do anything about it and she holds that against me I worked many jobs and got my GED till date but never had the money to move to Louisiana she still says I'm a dead beat because of it I got into a gay relationship so she and her foster Christian family all got extremely enraged I soon found out it wasn't for me but it was to late and her regular brothers 12&14 got uncomfortable and thought I was gay back when I lived with them now. Ivory has lost all trust in all people thinking nobody but herself is worth trusting because I cannot provide enough my daughter is about to turn one in January and she has been gone for two years I still love her but she has moved on and has a new boyfriend recently and has even said he was a better father I don't have any real options and with my daughter being in foster care I can't legally see her or send presents and ivory only recently turned 18 and got out of foster care but lives with then still and takes care of our daughter whil working got her GED and going to college I now have a job but no car please help me get her back
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If this girl doesn't appreciate everything that you have done for her and tried to do for her and you daughter, then it is not worth trying to get her back. I'm sorry if that is hard to her but if a girl loves someone and is willing to give it another try then they would have by now.
In my opinion, you should just keep trying your hardest for your daughter because she should be the most important thing to you at the moment. You should carry on working and saving money so that you can provide for her and be the father that she needs, like every child does. I know what it is like to grow up without a father for many years. It is hard. Good luck with your daughter.
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This girl doesnt sound like she deserves your love. If she had been accountable for herself, and knew how to treat people then (unless theres something here your not telling us) then she sounds selfish and immature.
As for your child, keep working your job, save up everything you can, take care of yourself and as soon as you can get your own place to live, you can have the system approve your living situation and allow you to see your child.
I honestly, dont know why you would want to still be involved with someone who has put you through so much, then blamed YOU for shit. Plus her family hates you from what you said....so im not really sure why you would throw yourself back into a family that sounds like their low level scumbags that try to cheat the system, there by endangering their own children and exposing them to that kind of shit.
Its ok to miss someone, it ok to miss the better times you had with them, but as long as her family is involved in her life real heavily then i just dont think thats a good idea.
Think about this ok, these parents (if you could even call them that) got YOU into this scam they were doing and didnt have a single issue with it.
This girl also sounds very jealous. Just because you were talking to another female doesnt automatically mean you MUST be cheating....
Find a new girl, better yourself, and then work on getting your daughter back. Shes still a baby pretty much so you still have plenty of time to pick yourself up, get it together, and then fight for her.
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