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long story ''help''
I left my home to study abroad and i began to work at some restaurant as a waitress, i met to those amazing people they become my friends,one day this guy enter and ordered coffee so he began to talk to me he was tall super hunk, and said directly to me that he likes me bla bla..his name is Hamouda .I came out of a serious complicated relationship with a married man whose wife is pregnant now, and of course the fact that i was married once and all the complication of that situation because its hard to have a divorce now specially in my country ,,so as you see i never had the right one or maybe im the problem dont know ..anyways this guy for a while began to come to the restaurant with his friends just to see me,my coworkers and i become really close to this group, so we were together the whole time my worktime they were in the rest. and after that we use to hang out pubs bars and stuff everything we use to do it together, then at the summer break when i went to my family which i stayed over two month after i came back we were more close than we use to be,so his friend aka his best friend his name was fadi he had a thing with my best friend that also works with me so he was in depression and didnt want to hang out with us anymore so i talked to him if the reason was anna and so on, if theres anything i can help you with im ready,,so he bagan to tell me that he has a problem that he cant tell anyone if he came to come clear hes gonna lose his friends specially hamouda and anna and hes gonna tell me after he leaves this place so after talk and talk it turned out hes in love with me.. i was so fuckin surprised and shocked reallyyyy,,imagine he use to help his friend hamouda in everyway to reach me but of course no luck i mean he even use to talk to me in the name of hamouda ,,anyway i dont know what happened but i use to feel something towards this guy (Fadi) maybe it was because of his sacrifice ,but i didnt do anything because of my friend anna and of course hamouda ,he said just leave it to me and we're gonna work something out so after awhile without details we got together ,anna completely understood us maybe because their relation wasnt that real ,,but Hamouda he lost him they got into a big fight and there not talking to each other anymore,,so nowww we're together for exactly two month ,it was really good at first but now hes like hes not there anymore he doesnt care he's careless its like i dont know him at all ,hes going to his country for two month and im thinking what has changed he did all that to get me he even fought with his best friend and now this!!it can't be ,,something is wrong,i dont feel his presence at all,maybe this two month that he'll be away gonna change something but i doubt it ,,should i take a break or something i told him many times that he's careless he told me hes gonna change but nothing...what should i do??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
The easy answer is that life is short so it makes sense to make the best of it and that includes what is best for you. So when it comes to relationships, it is important to have a list of what you want in a partner and know how to recognize that which you don't like and get good at seeing it sooner so you don't waster any longer than you have to to get to know if a man is right for you or not. This doesnt take long, usually a couple of dates or 2 or 3 months tops. People often pretend to be someone they aren't, hide their bad traits, or act totally different than their real self. The energy it takes to keep a false personality going is great so all people eventually start to let their real self show through. So it sounds about right that after 2 months you saw something in him you don't like.
Another thing about some men is that they are more interested in the chase than the woman. So once they think they've caught the interest or love of a woman, they lose interest in her. That is something you cannot fix and is a warped choice on the part of those males. So as to what to do? Each person you date should not be settling for the same or settling for less but always finding a guy who is a lot better than the last one. So it comes back to that list, what is it that you are looking for in a man and another good list is, who and what am I and what do I have to offer a relationship...its like people selling themselves via a resume for a job position. YOu state who you are, your traits and the hiring manager looks at their list of what they need in skills for an employee and decide whether you meet it or not. So start writing.
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