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im in desperate need of a low-stressful job!!!!!!


Question Posted Saturday November 21 2015, 3:59 pm

i have the worst anxiety you could ever imagine. i can barely go out. i cant be near a lot of people at all. barely even three people at once. anxiety has lost me jobs, chances at jobs, etc. i can barely do anything with it. but i need a job because i feel like a pathetic piece of **** without one. like im not worth anything. i dont like sitting on my butt all day. i dont want to do that anymore. i dont want to stay at home doing nothing but eat, watch tv/movies, etc all day. i want to actually have a job, but.....my anxiety wont allow it. i can imagine myself being happy with a job like putting returned books on the right shelves at the library. i love books, but mainly because its really quiet. im pretty confident on getting that job, but i want two jobs to be honest because i want to be constantly busy so i dont feel even the least bit worthless. whats another job like that that i can do......that hopefully pays pretty well. maybe a bit higher than $7.25.....? because i want to move out of my parents home because my dad gives me a lot of anxiety has well because hes always yelling at me which is horrid for my mental health. so please please please help me find a second job!!!!!!

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Dragonflymagic answered Sunday November 22 2015, 1:24 pm:
Anxiety isn't something you have to live with. I know some people takes medication for it but that should be your last choice. I know of another treatment, one that worked great for me when I was in my last year of HS. I had extreme social anxiety and the one of the methods used healed me. I know its possible, no matter how bad your case is. The only thing is, you would need to see a psychologist, one who is specifically trained in and used the CBT method of helping patients. CBT is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. I know of a Dr. who has a site on line devoted to reaching and telling people about this method so they can have hope to live a life free of anxieties and depression, both which can be helped by this CBT.

I suggest you check out the site and ask for referrals to any Drs. in your area who use this method. As long as you are in this state, there will be no job that is a low stressful job because the anxiety is still present inside you and unfortunately you carry it with you everywhere you go. So please consider checking it out. You sound desperate for a change which is perfect. So was I, so desperate, I was willing to do whatever it took to get over anxieties, no matter how scary initially it might be. Fear when faced, takes off running like a bully confronted.
Here's the website dear.

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