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Christmas when you begin dating
My boyfriend and I have only been officially dating since the beginning of November. We have been seeing each other since the beginning of September. The holidays are around the corner and I'm not sure what to get him for Christmas.
We just started dating so I don't really know what is acceptable? He is 23 years old.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Gift Giving?
wow, well this IS your first xmas together so it can still be something simple yet meaningful. Maybe an xmas ornament with a picture of the the two of you inside it making funny faces?
maybe a gift card for starbucks? or something that he could use if he works and on his breaks leaves to go eat? Something useful is always a good thing people appreciate.
does he work out or walk alot or jog? maybe a pair of jogging shoes would be in order?? the only things you want to steer clear of are are expensive things like watches or pricey clothing or anything that has to do with love and being together forever. You dont want to put that kind of pressure on him yet, but getting him something that you "noticed, he might need" for this purpose or that while you were with him, would be way more appreciated and make it look like your looking to take care of him as a partner and that you pay attention to the details.
if he says later whatever gift you gave him made him feel weird, just play it off and minimize it by saying something like "what? it was just shoes, its not that big a deal, that kinda stuff isnt big in MY eyes. I just noticed your old (whatever the item was) and thought i'd help thats all) ; )
and then mention the cost and that thats not too much to you.
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