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I need advice please: he just stopped talking to me!
Ive been seeing my ex boyfriend for 1 year and 6 months but all of a sudden he just stopped speaking to me and i dont knw why and he dont want to tell me why instead he tells me im overthinking things again..i saw him on the 24th october and then didnt hear from him it was his birthday on the 31st and i msgd hm bt he ddnt reply so i phoned him and since then i havent heard from him iv send him tons of msgs even phoned him but he just ignores it and stuff..he told me he likes being around me he just dont like how clingy iv gotten..its not that im clingy i dont mean to seem so but i just want answers why he dont reply to me,sometimes he tellr me that hes not keen on people anymore,when i saw him i told him it felt like it was the last time im ever gona see him but he said no he dont think so and our friendship wont end but now i dont know anymore..cause now it does seem like im clingy seeing that im sending hm 2or 3msgs a day just so that he can reply but instead he dont..i kinda dont know what to do cause in a way i dont want to lose him again,what should i do so that he will mayb speak to me again if im not seeing so clingy cause he told me hes not keen on clingy but all i ever do is seem clingy..i just want him to talk to me like we did before but that wont probably happen..do u think him ignoring me is his way of saying leave him alone
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He refused to have any contact with you, or acknowledge you, on his birthday.
You may be clingy, but he's a total asshole. A selfish, manipulative, asshole.
He might like being with you, but he has basically no respect for you and doesn't give a shit about being polite or about your feelings.
Be glad he is gone. This is not a person you want to be in a relationship with. This is a person who is deliberately choosing to be mean to you. Even if you were clingy (and a 2-3 messages well within normal) his reaction to your messages is completely wrong.
Him ignoring you is his way of saying he's an disrespectful asshole who doesn't give a shit about your feelings. Leave him alone for your own sake. You are better off without him.
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