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What does he mean by this... When he says this?
Hi, we're good friends and known each other quite a while. He is single, I am not and he knows that. We do joke quite a lot. He texts me and says, don't tell your boyfriend that we fell in love, it is too soon. I was surprised because he jokes with me and others a lot. I don't know what's going through in his head? Only guys view, please. Cheers
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Not knowing him at all I cannot truly know exactly what his meaning is. What I can tell you is this.
I'm married and we have friends that are married and single both male and female. I tease and make sexual remarks to both the married and single female friends alike. I'm harmless I would never cheat on my wife. They know this as does my wife; it is all just good natured fun.
Is it possible this person is like me and is just teasing you. The other alternative is that he is in love with you and maybe there is a misinterpretation or not of something you said or did that has caused him to send such a message to see your response.
I'm going to assume this is an unwanted text since you are questioning his motive. I would suggest you text him back with. "Hey I don't mind you teasing me like this when my husband is near but a text like this can be misinterpreted please do not send anything like this in the future."
Sending him a reply like this does two things; first, if it is an advance on his part you have rejected him in a nice way by accepting his advance as part of his normal teasing. Second, you have told him that this type of teasing is unacceptable and not to continue. This also sends a message that you are not interested in his advances.
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