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Question Posted Thursday August 13 2015, 10:25 am

I'm a 13 year ok going on 14 and I'm at a music and Christian camp in jersey at the moment. I haven't whacked off in a month and now my hormones are raging. In my mind I think about having sex with campers or porn and i think why now why at camp especially a Christian camp. I don't wanna masterbate here but I have to do something please help.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday August 13 2015, 12:01 pm:
Contrary to what you may be being told it is not a sin to masturbate. So go find a nice quiet place where you won't be disturbed and take care of your hormones.

Masturbation is a safe and healthy way to relieve the sexual tension brought on by puberty. The reasons parents and the religious elders tell you different is the fear that once you start masturbating you will want the real thing. The problem is with or without masturbation there will come a time that you will want to have sex. Masturbation will help you delay that time until you are old enough and mature enough to have adult sexual relations.

A point of fact that might make thing easier for you. According to a recent poll 85% of us masturbate, this includes adults. In fact as part of foreplay prior to sex people usually indulge in what is called mutual masturbation. This is where the female gives the male and HJ and the male fingers the female. Fingering of a female by herself or another is masturbating. Giving a male an HJ is masturbating him.

As I said go find some place where you won't be disturbed and take care of business. You will feel better and be able to enjoy the remaining weeks of camp.

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