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Can long distance school relationship stays
Our relationship is till 1yr and its a long distance relationship in school age and i want to continue my relation .... can school life relationship may continue easily ?
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I think long distance friendships are fine if just for the sake of having a modern version of a penpal, just on friendship basis. Its very hard to expect anymore more like a real dating relationship between boy and girl. And in case you're wondering, it doesn't matter the age, whether young teen or older adult.
I am an older person but I've delved right in to use of a computer when they came along, switching to cell phones and using the internet. In fact i did on line dating to find my 2nd husband. So I do understand how easy it is for my mind to fill in what I think the person is like by how I interpret any info and input from them and found I was quite wrong on plenty occasions. this wasn't guys I talked to for a year. It was people I wrote to for a week tops and since I was looking for someone to meet in the general area I lived and worked in, we also talked by phone. Even that didn't help. It wasn't until I was face to face with a person that I could really figure out who they were and if there really was any chemistry between us sexually. A photo, or Skype isn't the same thing. There's something we all emit called pheremones and its what attracts certain people to others, usually the pheremones have to match somewhat. You can't pick up on pheremones via the web. guys I thought were cute, but in person, it fell flat, neither was attracted to the other, or the kiss goodnight was yucky, not a romantic kiss...it felt like a brother trying to kiss me romantically..,yuck.
Another thing one can't have via the LDR, long distance relationship, is the experiences of dating, going places, sharing hobbies together, cuddling or hugging, all that is missing. Also, trust can't develop in LDRs because when you're not there, theres no way to know at first if a person can be trusted. Promising to remain true to each other is very hard, especially for teens who haven't really done any dating yet.
When an equally nice looking person comes along in person who wants to date you, its going to be hard to not want to do so. theres more pay off and more learning experience in person. So its easier for a person to break their promise and cheat by having a bf/gf on the side or totally lose interest in each other. If you understand the limitations and are okay with that, then enjoy it for as long as it lasts. As to how long it might last, there really is no way to tell.
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