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period delay or something else


Question Posted Sunday July 26 2015, 12:51 pm

last to last month i and my guy were sleeping nude.i gave him a blowjob and he fingered me. there was a gap of 1-2 mins or so between both the things. and his hand felt dry to me. al this hapened the next to next day wen my period gt ovr. so if he had sperms on his hand by any chance then is there a possibility of me being pregnant? and after all this thing we had shower too. he fingered me in shower and even i gave him a blowjob. we didnt have sex. im still a virgin. my cycle is usually of 32-35 days. after all this the next month i got my period on 17 and it was like 8 days othrwse its usually 6 days i assume that was bcz i took medicine(sandoz) to postpone my periods as i had a trip. my date was 17th. today is 26th and i stil havnt got my periods. from tday mornin im hvng very very very light brown discharge and in a very very small quantity. and the last whole month i didnt participate in any sexual activity. could the medicine be causing the delay of periods? also ive started exercising from past 4 days. im 18. my periods have been late few tyms bfr lso. thy hv been late 10-12 days also. but still m scared. please help



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Dragonflymagic answered Monday July 27 2015, 7:50 pm:
When a period comes on late or slowly and starts with a brownish discharge, it means it has been delayed but it about to start. Next stage with be pinkish spotting and then your regular flow. This will happen many many times throughout your life time as the period cycle is easily delayed by stress, by sickness, a headcold or the flu will do as well as anything that stresses the body, even a very heavy allergy attack. Females also will find their periods start sooner or way later than normal if they are regularly on a daily basis around the same females every day, such as female classmates, or co workers or family members who have periods. When women are around each other often enough, their cycles begin to change start times to become in sync with each other so all the gals are having their period exactly at the same time. Why nature does this, I don't know but its a very well known fact. So its beyond your ability to control.

Now, if for birth control you are simply deciding to count days on a calender to know whether you are safe or not or pregnant or not, this is not a very reliable way to go. Women who are trying to conceive a child will count days but they are checking for a few other things as well to know when they are ovulating. So I would only rely on this method if trying to get pregnant which I am sure you are not.
So, this leaves only one other choice, birthcontrol. Its time for you to get on it dear and that means a visit to your Dr. or go visit Planned Parenthood for that.

A little sex ex on the side, there are plenty of what you call 'virgins' those who have not had the penis in vagina sex yet who actually become pregnant. The reason is, it doesnt matter what the tool is that brings the sperm near the vagina or into it, penis, your fingers, or his or it just spraying there, it is sperm that successfully meets with a fertile egg that creates pregnancy. One more thing to think about. If gay sex is two of one kind of gender, there can't be penis in vagina sex. So at what point are they no longer virgins? This should help you understand that the sexual experience once embarked on in whatever manner, even if only masturbating or oral sex, is still sex and the experience of the pleasures of orgasm so that one is no longer a virgin, or in other words no longer new to the experience of sex. Thats all it means. So you are not a sexual virgin, but you are still an intercourse virgin, intercourse is penis in vagina sex.

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