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The TuTu
One of my parents friends made a tutu for me and I really like it but she wants me to wear it tomorrow but I really don't want to because I want to save it for a special occasion. But if I don't wear it she'll ask me why I didn't wear it and I don't want to tell her the truth because I've told her multiple times that I want to save it for a special occasion, but she REALLY wants me to wear it so I told her I might, which she probably interpreted as a yes. So what should I do? Should I just wear it or make a truthful lie (ex. I didn't have anything to go under it, which is true but I could've washed the thing I need to go under it)?
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If all is as you've said and you haven't left any important information out, then based on what you've said, My opinion is that this friend of your parents may be an adult but they certainly are not mature.
Think about it. How many people give gifts and then pester the receiver of said gift to prove they like it by wearing it or been seen using it?
All this means is that adult has a low self confidence and I'll bet they get upset easily too if someone unfriends them on Facebook.
So let me say this, you're wearing the tutu to 'temporarily make her happy' is not going to help boost her self confidence. What you could do if she hasn't seen you wear it yet, it to put it on for her next time she's over visiting or have mom take a photo of you modeling it and send it to her thanking her again and saying something like, "Because this tutu is so much more beautiful than any others, I am saving it to wear for the most important performance I'll be doing. I'll be sure to let you know when that is so you can come watch me."
Hopefully your parents aren't being side tracked here and forcing you to wear it.
It could simply be a matter of concern, when someone makes or sews something for a person to wear, a concern that it fits right and doesnt need alterations and in that case, modeling it for her to see at your house is sufficient to take care of that concern.
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