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Question Posted Wednesday July 15 2015, 3:18 pm

22 year old girl.

Been in a relationship for the past 2 and a half years with a guy that is 24 and is great. Funny, intelligent, ambitious, and caring. And things were wonderful until I found out he was talking to another girl ..Texting, snap chatting, face times.. I talked him he apologized. He then went to the movies with a girl that he went to middle school with that he hadn't seen for years and used to crush on her to "catch up".. He then went out of the country and met up with the girl that he was constantly face timing and texting.. That bothered me... I started to get very fed up and stopped caring as much yet he still claims that they're both only his friends and that its all in my head... But my thing is if I were to be the one doing this, he wouldn't even be with me anymore. Fast-forward - I recently went out with a friend and met this one guy who is a cop. We kind of have the same history and let me tell you that every time I see this guy my heart starts racing.. I love talking to him and how much of a gentleman he is and I just feel so safe around him.. My feelings for my boyfriend are starting to fade and I just don't know what to do.. Advice greatly appreciated



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Lilyadvice answered Friday July 17 2015, 8:21 am:
Well, he could very well just be friends with her. Middle school was a long time ago for him, and to see someone from way back then, he probably does want to just catch up. To be honest, I would do the same. I'm sure right now with you meeting this cop that you like, and your feelings for your current boyfriend starting to fade, you are probably confused to know if this is just a simple crush or if you really like him, and may be just wondering how to break up with your boyfriend or whatever. My advice would be, pay attention to how you and this cop act around each other and compare that to you and your boyfriend. Talk with both separately (not saying to tell them both about the other) and see who truly cares for you more. The one that's more caring should be the one you go out with

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