|
I dont know how to get this friendship to "grow"
I am 14 years old and i met this guy (also 14) while on vacation, he was staying in the same hotel so we met, ate together ,went on a walk with his friends and he didnt make the first move, i did (i think he was more interested in another girl, but oh well) anyway we talked and it turned out we had a lot things in common and so on my last day i ask for his number and the following morning (when i was leaving) i was too shy to say a proper goodbye. So about a day after i leave i text him and we have a pretty good conversation but i dont know, maybe i said something wrong but he just left me at read, and 2 days after that i text him again (and i forget that it was his birthday, oops) and he tells me that he is celebrating alone, so i congratulate him but then he just makes no effort to keep the conversation going so i give up too,
basically i want to be friends with him cause he seems like a cool guy, but i dont know how to do it because of our last "conversation" if that makes any sense.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
H0n, it may just be that he cant find intereset in a cyber friendship. P0sting things 0n s0cial apps may be 0ne thing, but relating t0 a pers0n 0n line as he w0uld face t0 face is very different and s0me pe0ple d0nt d0 well in that envir0nment. I am 0ne, and I kn0w l0ts 0f guys wh0 wr0te me 0n a dating site didnt like that venue and were m0re c0mf0rtable with being able t0 d0 ph0ne calls 0r meet face t0 face.
0ne cauti0n, d0nt 0ver d0 the texts as it makes a pers0n l00k t00 desperate and can actually drive the 0ther pers0n farther away Let s0me time g0 by and then send a text again. If he can't find anything new t0 chat ab0ut that happened in hi s life in the last...lets say 2 weeks, then he just may n0t be interested in keeping in t0uch, even th0 he gave u his number at the time.
I cant say all guys are like this but I kn0w 0f many wh0 didnt like when females texts them daily 0r every 0ther day, it was t00 0ften f0r them. If he were 30 and ready t0 find the lady t0 settle d0wn with and Have kids, and thinks a particular lady is that 0ne...then a guy will want t0 hear fr0m her very 0ften and n0t want t0 be apart fr0m her f0r l0ng. S0 in the end, there's n0 magic thing y0u c0uld say that w0uld change things.
]
More Questions: |