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Going to show me what was inside of him?


Question Posted Friday June 26 2015, 9:43 pm

Ok guys and girls I have a question for you and what I wanted to ask was this.
I have a male therapist because I lost my daddy 3 years ago to suicide and I'm a girl btw and my therapist said tht he was going to show me what was inside of him.
What did he mean by that?
Does it mean he wants to have sex with me or is he wanting to share his emotions.
He is 36 years old and I'm 19 years old.
If a guy could answer this that would be amazing.:)

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adviceman49 answered Saturday June 27 2015, 10:16 am:
I have no idea what he means by showing you what is inside of him though it does not sound right. A therapist is suppose to work with you to bring out the root cause of a problem. Then help you deal with that problem in a more purposeful manner so you can move forward with your life. For him to show you what is inside of him does not sound helpful.

Does he want to have sex with you? I really can't say though it would be wrong of him if he did lead you in that direction as when in therapy in theory the therapist has undue influence over their patient. In showing you his emotions I don't see where that would be helpful.

I have been in therapy after an auto accident left me disabled and became a life changing event. My therapist worked with me to draw things out of me. Whens he did at times she used herself as an example of how she handled a situation but she never showed her emotions or led me to believe she wanted to have sex with me.

My advice: Find a new therapist, possibly a female. You need a therapist you can be completely comfortable with. One you can tell your deepest secrets to knowing they will go no further and knowing the therapist will not take advantage of you.

I believe from what you have written and your questions that trust and ability to be open with this therapist no longer exists. If you need help finding a new therapist you can contact your EAP program at work or your insurance provider.

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