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My period


Question Posted Thursday June 11 2015, 3:39 pm

I'm 13 years old and I think that I just got my 4 period this month, but the thing is I'm not even sure if it's, I got first in December 19 2014 but last month I didn't get it and nor in January, I really hate this, and it's a different time like Iits usually the middle of the month, but this week I got it at the begging, im not sure what does that mean??, but I really want to know when I'm getting my period, because I wake up full of stains and it's really nasty so how do I know when I'm getting my period?? My family isn't so supportive and I have to relay on YouTube but No video is telling me about which way to put my pad, I have no clue which is he butt hole side and which is the vagina side, so which ones which?? Thanks

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Dragonflymagic answered Friday June 12 2015, 4:15 pm:
Here's a link I always hand out to girls who worry about irregular periods.
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Just so you know we're not just saying its normal. At 14 i started and for next two years or so was very irregular, 2 or 3 months with no period at all was common as well as what seemed like two smaller lighter periods closer together. It is for this reason that any girl at such an early age often thinks she is pregnant whether she's even been having sex or not. A teen girl can not rely on the counting method of her period to know when she is not fertile and safe because she could ovulate at just about any time.

I know of a you tuber Laci Green who as a teen felt she couldn't talk to parents either for whatever reason and realized entering her own sexual awakening with her body that she had much to learn on what was healthy or not for cleaning down there, choices of period products and how to use, learning about gender differences, dating and relationships and everything there is to know about sex and even the history behind the term "Virgin". its not what you may think. So if you are gung ho about self educating, I also have a link to her main page.
www.youtube.com/user/lacigreen
She's in her twenties now, has worked with Planned Parenthood making some videos for them and does get the real facts, not just what she 'thinks' on these subjects. Very entertaining short videos that can be replayed over and over and as someone in her 50s highly recommend her for the youth of today.
As for pads, yes the wider end goes towards the back. But just an ahead for when you do get regular periods and leak while asleep during the heavier days, used two pads. If you put one pad in normal place, that works only while you're upright, walking sitting, not laying down and liquids will leak past the wider butt end. So to remedy that, move one pad way higher so you're covered almost to where butt crack starts, turn the 2nd around so the wide end is facing front. Overlap in the middle and you're covered well. this should cut down on leakage accidents at night. As soon as possible, if clothing still wet with blood, get in sink under hot water and get used to touching your own blood girl cus it cant be helped, rub and swish the cloth back and forth until the majority of blood is gone. Find a product in your area called Grandmas Secret spot remover.
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It seriously has worked for me on blood and even grease from the car door on my clothes. Here is their link. I'd contact them, give your zip code and ask what stores in your area carry their product. I first saw it at a hardward store, then at a craft store, Haven't found in groceries yet. When I move I'll ask for my area.
Hope this all helps you.

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smilebaby answered Thursday June 11 2015, 9:45 pm:
dear 13 year old. if you have only been getting your period for a year or two it can be very irregular. that is quite normal. and to be honest it doesn't really matter witch way your pad is. if there is a end that is wider than another that is the side you put closer to your butt.

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