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question for both genders
I'm 13 I jerk off and I'm no longer ashamed but I have a question. I want to know what sex feels kik for both genders because when I grow up and I have sex I want to know what I am getting into. I already know that if you don't get wet it hurts but tell how everything else feels to both genders. (annul,viaginal,and oral sex feels.pleaase😁
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thats a tall order.
to be honest, what sex feels like as a teen is not going to come close to how it feels when you're older and more experienced, and theres a difference when having sex for lust or just exploring issues or whether having it for love. And the more compatible a couple is, the strength of the chemistry makes it feel so much more intense.
So it is hard to give you just one simple pat answer that will apply to all the situations you'll ever find yourself in.
For example, I once was with a guy who I liked well enough, and well it came time that we decided to give each other oral sex, even tho I
had done it before with others, I couldn't bring myself to do it with him. His own natural scent was not a chemical match for me and the smell made me want to gag as I tried to give oral sex. Mind you, he wasnt dirty or something wrong with him, just that he wasnt the right sexual match for me. So it was not a pleasant experience and I was an experienced adult at this point.
If you jerk off, you already know how the intensity builds until you just explode in release. Well you get the same thing when doing it all the different ways. Its just that some guys like the feel of anal as it feels tighter to them. However if the female can learn to control and squeeze her vaginal muscles, he can get the same effect and even better that way as she can squeeze on command, as often as she likes, in a rhythym if she likes and that is exciting to the man. Oral sex, depends on the size of females mouth. If small, she will gag too easy and mostly have to use her hand and tongue and only take the tip in. If a small mouth, her teeth can actually scrape the penis and that is not comfortable. If doing vaginal,its more often the males that get their orgasm and the females don't. Very few actually achieve orgasm that way. If his penis has just the right natural angle and her vagina just the right tilt so that his tip hits her "A" spot, a sensitive bit of tissue on the upper side of vagina if shes on the bottom, and just before her cervix, that can result in an orgasm.
However, the more common ways, females have orgasms in by the manipulation of the clitoris. It has thousands of nerve ending in that tiny little spot, more than a males entire penis, and hse is capable of having many orgasms, as long as it is being played with. then theres the G spot, which most men just use their fingers to work on. the upper side of vagina no more than 2 sections of your finger length in, which feels spongy and wrinkly. this will swell with blood like a penis does if massaged correctly. there are many utube videos explaining in detail with charts and toy models to show how it is done. Now lets see, how any of this feels for the female. Well, some females have a lot of nerve endings in the tissue that internally separates their vagina from the anus. So any pressure inside the anus will stimulate this area in her and she can have an orgasm, but thats only a few. Most women I've ever had a chance to talk to, say it does nothing for them, same as me. Feels good but no orgasm, so she may not be likely to have a great interest in this.
then vaginal, some females do better sitting on top and having the control of speed and movement and find it easier to have orgasms this way than with him on top. Oral sex, itll be more pleasurable for her if she has control of how far you go. guys tend to get so excited and start pushing too hard and fast and truly you dont want to make her vomit over your penis, best to let her use her hand to control how fast and deep you go, and have a safe word or in this case signal which means stop immediately.
Guys can easily have sex without having feelings for a girl. Girls don't like to have sex unless they have developed feelings for the boy and he has feelings for her too. So no easy sex. Best to find a girl that you really like not just for her looks but for who she is inside so you can be both her best friend and boyfriend, and then you will also enjoy your sex much more and so will she. Lubrication is important. Even older couples will tell you they have to reapply sometimes often during sex. I tend to gush, (female ejaculation) and repeatedly....so it washes away all lube or the thicker fluid a female has to lubricate in the beginning. this ejac. fluid is much thinner, like water for her and can rinse away all lube. the moment you feel the pull at your skin or she feels it, you have to speak up and reapply lube and I believe its still felt for her even with condom, maybe somewhat for him. Do not consider having sex with both condoms for std control, and her being on pill for pregnancy prevention. One or the other is not good enough. SO I hope you're understandig by now that if two people think they are ready for sex but unable to talk about it before and during sex, than they are not ready. I could never have sex without conversation. Important stuff like, go slower, go faster, i NEED more lube,move your finger/hand over a bit, etc. from each partner. Without good communication or planning, its not going to be that good for either person. Hope this gives you some idea. But as I said, how it actually feels, can not be explained in one pat answer that will apply to all.
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