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he problem is I'm the only guy in a class full of women who are at least ten years older it looks. And this is a swimming class? Wouldn't that be awkward?
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Hon, I already answered you on that. the only place it is awkward is in your mind. You are allowing your thoughts to control your actions. If this is occuring not just in this situation but many others in life where you find you can't make any decisions or take any actions as you're always thinking thoughts to talk you out of doing things, then you may have a Cognitive disorder that affects your behavior. this is much more common than you would think, and is not really a mental illness at all by mere a very bad and crippling disabling practice due to a real bad habit in your thought processes.
I can't stress more than if you are dwelling so hard on the issue of taking a class with all women and that preventing you from attending, that you may need Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Look it up on line, its a real thing and it prevents people from doing things in life cus they get stuck in indecision. Good luck.
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