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I can't even pee or touch it in the slightest bit without wanting to scream.
So my boyfriend fingers me often, but today we went to the beach and I let him when we stopped on our way back to my house where he was dropping me off. I know that it's bad to let him finger me when his hands are dirty and I know that that's why it's hurting so bad right now. But I can't even pee or touch it in the slightest bit without wanting to scream. I can't tell my mom or go to the doctor but I know that if I keep it clean it'll go away. What do I do for the pain until it does? Help!
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Okay it is most likely that you have some sort of bladder or urinary tract infection. This is not the result of your boyfriend fingering you. Infections take time to take hold. If you had written that you boyfriend fingered you two or three days ago I might agree with you.
If are over 14 years of age, which I believe you are, you do not need parental permission to see a doctor. There is a law called HIPPA which is a federal law passed by congress which give young people 14 and over confidentiality over their reproductive system. Since the urinary tract is part of the reproductive system, in that it is part of your vagina. This problem is covered under HIPPA.
Under this law you can make a doctors appointment, be seen by and be treated by a doctor and no one not even you parents can know why you saw the doctor or what treatment the doctor provided. You can see any doctor you wish including any of the walk-in clinics or hospital emergency rooms.
Congress wrote this into HIPPA so that young people like you would seek medical help for problems such as this when the felt the could not go to their parents for help. No one but you and your doctor will know what you were treated for and no the doctor cannot tell if your a virgin or not. Only whether or not your Hymen is intact which is not a sign of virginity.
At your age and the fact that you are dating and riding in cars other than with family you should have a copy of family insurance card with you at all times. If you do not then I suggest going to a local hospital ER. They must treat you and they then can send the bill home which can be sent to the insurance company for payment.
You need to see a doctor for you either have a urinary infection or a yeast infect. Until you can see a doctor talk to your local pharmacist who also must keep your information confidential under HIPPA. As he or she may be able to offer an over the counter product to help with pain especially if it is a yeast infection. Yeast infections are something as a women you can look forward to experiencing many times as they are quite common for women.
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Keeping clean may not be enough. Germs can start an infection that needs treatment with antibiotics. Your Mom is a female, so she should know from experience thats sex and fingering isn't the only ways to get infections. Girls can get infections in the vagina just from using douches or soap, and bladder infections if its painful to pee can also happen without sex. Even with careful wiping, I've gotten them often after having diarrhea. It doesnt take much in germs to get it started. So tell Mom you think you have a bladder infection and if you dont want her to know you had sex, dont tell her. If she's weird and asks if yu did, just roll your eyes and say, "Geez Mom, you know infections can happen from many things other than sex. All I know is it hurts when I pee.
Once you have an appointment, you can ask to not have Mom in room with you and a doctor must keep everything confidential even if its your parents, thats the current Hippa law. Good luck.
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