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girl's your first handjob
girl's your first handjob
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That's a short and mysterious question. A handjob just means holding your boyfriend's erect penis in your hand and moving it up and down the length of it until he ejaculates (it will sort of twitch and jump rhythmically and a few 'spurts' of semen are released). There's no risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections. There's not really anything to 'go wrong'. Who with? Well you don't want to do it with just some random guy. It should be a guy you're in a relationship with, obviously because it's a pretty intimate thing to do. Don't want to waste it on just any old guy, eh? When? Whenever you feel comfortable about doing it and actually WANT to do it. If you're not then don't do it until you are. He shouldn't be pressuring you into it if you don't really want to yet. Doing it just because all your mates seem to be doing it and talking about it is not really a great motive. You need to want to do it for yourself. Lots (most, I might even fairly assume) of younger couples do it long before they even think about having full sex. It's a safer and very enjoyable thing to do. Much less pressure and worry than having sex. He'll enjoy it and it will relieve lots of sexual tension. You should enjoy 'making your boyfriend cum' and feel pleased with yourself too. If you're thinking 'yuk...that was gross and I hated it' then it was too soon. So maybe re-evaluate things and take a step back in what you do sexually with your boyfriend at the moment? The guy you have your first handjob with might not be the one you first have sex with at all. That's no problem either. Hope you get something from my reply. Drop a line to me, or open to the whole group if it'll help. Bit more information WOULD be good though!
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