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hide i m not vergin..to my future hubby
how to hide i m not vergin
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
That circle of skin Ocalaphernella talks about is your Hymen and is not necessary proof you are a virgin. At one time it was back in the dark ages before women became liberated not just sexually liberated. Today's women is more active and many of those activities can cause the Hymen to rupture. Today's feminine hygiene products such as Tampons can rupture the Hymen and the only thing the women will feel during first sex is the pain of her vagina being stretched.
For a man to expect his wife to bleed on their wedding night is out dated. She can still be a virgin and may have lost her Hymen back during puberty while doing such things as bike or horseback riding. Ballet Dancing, gymnastics, field hockey and other activities can rupture the Hymen.
Even if your future husband were to take you to a doctor all the doctor could tell him is your Hymen has been ruptured. The doctor could not say if it was ruptured by sex, use of tampons or anything else. No one can tell through examination whether or not you are a virgin.
Hiding something like this from your future husband is probably not the best way to start a marriage. It is understandable why you would want to or need to do so if you come from a culture that puts a value on virginity.
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Well.. It is pretty hard to hide that, considering when you have sex for the first time (usually) the circle of skin outside your vagina breaks/rips and you end up bleeding, typically. I suggest you don't hide it, and tell the truth, because that is very important in a relationship, Especially a marriage. And it may end up coming sometime in the future, and that could end very badly. So you should be honest with him and talk to him about it.
Hope this helps~
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