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getting isolated from relatives because of wealth
My grandpa's wealth has distributed among my 2uncles n my mom didn't take any pi of it..but my uncles and their wives don't look after my grandma..so my mom brought her to our home..they even fraud her conspiring withthehouse builder...so our relationship with them was fading away day by day...but recently a few days back my elder uncle passed away n my grandma couldn't bear the shock n she was in ventilation nursing home..my other uncle n his wife n cousins didn't even go to see her ther..n they don't even call her n keep in touch...she doesn't complaint for this to us but we can realize her pain..so I tried to tell my cousins to call her or talk to her..but they insulted me in return n isolated me..they spread rumor about my mom n grandma that because of them my eldee uncle has died..actually what happened was when they did cheat her with the property my mom appealed for the injunction in court n construction of the building was being stopped b police came to the building o hang the legal notice up..n now they are saying that as police came my elder uncle got scared n had heart attack..all my relatives are now like our opponents..i know they are doing sin n my mom is right..but they are isolating us..what to do?
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Unfortunately, and I know from personal experience within my own family. My mom's identical twin sister pretends that my mom does not exist (& has done so for over 20 years) and tells people all these horrible things about her. ANYWAY I tried to resolve it when I was younger because I wanted everyone to get along right? But it didn't help. My aunt still does not talk to my mom.
My point being I realized we would just have to move on or wait til she comes around. Sometimes they never do. It's really sad because you want to be like other families and have good times. Just know it is not your fault. There is not much you can do if they just keep hurting you. I'm so sorry this is happening. I mean you could try having a conversation. But I;m guessing that's already happened. Just make the best of times with your grandma and mom. I hope it does work out though. I do not want to discourage you. I am just saying sometimes people act irrationally and they are stubborn sometimes and there is not much you can do if they are going to keep being that way, You know? It's hard.
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