Question Posted Wednesday January 28 2015, 3:20 pm
So i tried doing no contact with him for six days. On monday i saw him on my way home. I pretended as if i didnt even see him but as soon as he walked past me i stared at him from my front view mirrow For like a minute or two then i turned away. The next thing i noticed was that he turned around as stared at me as i was driving away. I finally spoke to him yesterday by text just to say hi. He told me how he was doing great without me even asking and then he ask how come he barely sees me to say hi. He then said one of these day he'll love to see me. I told him im very busy but i'll let him know when i'll be able to see him. He said ok. i just hope when i meet him he'll talk about us getting back together. Since this morning today we didnt talk and i wont text him either. I'm avoiding him again for some couple of days.
I have to tell you something about what you wrote. And take it from someone who has been given the cold shoulders a lot.
It works at first. And probably after. It can go on for several times. If man's enemy is a woman's complaint, man's ultimate weakness is a woman's silence. It gives us guys somethig to think about.
I have to be upfront though with matters that you have to consider.
- If you love him and can wait for him to come back? That is your decision.
- If he doesn't, that is his decision.
- I would like you to see it positively. Listen to Rascal Flatt's "God bless the broken road." It might enlighten you a bit.
I want to remind you that you need to see your self worth. You must make this your priority. And you will find peace.
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