Question Posted Wednesday January 28 2015, 12:58 pm
I was introduced to my boyfriend by my best friend who is a guy, my best friend and my boyfriend aren't so close though, just hi hi friends. My ex boyfriend and I had relationship issues, we barely used to talk or call.. when I told him lets fix it he said he wanted to do so as well... even after we decided to do so, he didn't call or text me for 3days, Three days ago, I asked him if he wanted it or not in a yes or no answer, he didn't reply, I kept texting him to give me an answer... I told him that I need an answer so dat if this no contact continues and I decide to indulge in another relationship, it wouldn't seem like I am cheating. then he replied "you can indulge Deedee" so since then I decided to move on...its been three days since we broke up, just this morning he text me Hi, I didn't reply.... I was talking with my best friend about it and he told me that he saw him with a girl a day before he text.... so I am wondering if his hanging out with some other girl a night before why would he text me the next morning to say "hi"
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Dragonflymagic answered Thursday January 29 2015, 4:35 pm: A guy who is really into you is going to have time for you, make you a priority in his life and is not going to tell you it's okay to start another relationship. He's lukewarm for you at the very best, maybe no feelings at all. So the best thing to do is ignore him. He doesnt have to have a reason behind texting Hi. He wouldnt be able to explain why. It could be that he has something of a disorder with being compulsive, which means, whatever thought hits at any given momemt, he acts on it, so there would be no reliability with someone like him. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
Ocalaphernella answered Thursday January 29 2015, 12:16 am: He's probably just playing you, I say move on and find better. It sounds complicated, and he doesn't seem like boyfriend material. So find someone else, I say.
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