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can you please follow me?
can you please follow me?
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When someone goes to my column and chooses to write me, or any particular advice person you target, all we get on info. if you've filled it out is gender and age. This site makes it safe to ask or give advice because it is set up to keep you and I anonymous. No names, no computer site address contacts given out by the Advicenators system. The only few advice-givers who do post their photo, their email or anything else personal on their column do so by choice though warned not to by the creator of the site. So all I have the ability to know of you is that you say you are male and 19, whether it's true, I can not know. Everything on the internet is theatre of the mind. There's a T V show on that now. Old women pretending to be a young man and vice versa, it's all theatre of the mind. The only other thing I have to my disposal is previous questions asked from the same system user. So it shows your most recent questions and which people answered you. So I know you are the user listed as a male, 19 and from your questions that you a great interest in anything gay, for in your questions you do not state you are gay but I did receive your comment that you state you are gay.
If you are of adult age, over 18, and you truly are a male who prefers males to females, why are you asking if it's a good decision to get involved with someone or in gay church, etc. The only users who usually ask such questions about their gender or sexual preferance are pre-puberty or starting puberty. Maybe you wouldn't mind shedding the light as to why you feel the need to ask? I can only guess that there is vital info missing that would change our advice somewhat on here. Such as if one of you were actually under 18, and if one of you is actually bi-sexual, not gay. Some people who write in don't know there is a difference. And oddball info that does still affect what we might have to share:, if he already has other male partners, one of you has herpes, aids, or dying slowly of some terminal disease they can't catch, etc.
I don't give out my personal information. A few have done that on here and got a person cyber stalking them with email and on their social sites and others getting hate mail or threats. It was a big discussion between the owner of the site and the advice givers some time ago. So I would never do that, even without the warning. I am on here for those who truly need the advice. There is no way to determine who the potential threats are ahead of time. So I would never be following anyone who writes in asking questions. You may be a nice person and all you say you are but the day of trusting someone at their word is long gone, even before I was born.
I have one more thought that just came to me. Most people learn to define who they really are, for themselves, not following societis, freinds or familys or churchs expectations for them. For most it doesn't happen until close to age 30. Although some may go thru stages of that at an earlier age and perhaps that is what has you asking your questions. If so, there is no right or wrong, you don't have to worry about following a path or choice made and it being final. This is a time to experience and learn through your experiences more about who you are and what makes you happy. You can't know until you make a choice and try, experiment. There is no reason to remain single and deny yourself a partner unless you know thats what you think is best. If you do that and don't like it, then do the opposite. Eventually by near age 30 you will have figured out who you are to the point that no one, no threat can sway you from being yourself.
Good luck.
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