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I Hate My Friend Whom I Sit With At Lunch
Is it normal for teen to hate their super weird friend? Alright, I don't have many friends at school. Well I do, but I'm held back by one person- my "best friend." I had sat with this kid since school started. We had other people, but drama happened and we fell apart. Anyway she's the only person I sit with at lunch. At first I didn't mind, but then I started noticing weird things about her. For example, this kid eats her hair, picks her nose and eats her buggars, she runs everywhere she goes (when she does she lifts her legs high like a young child's), she wears pants so tight you can see her butt-crack, and much much more. What's bad is that people notice! They make fun of her and then put me in the same boat as her. I have other friends who are sweeties, and I know they feel for the both of us, but they can't extend themselves to my friend because she's so darn anti-social! This friend is the only person I sit with and I feel so ISOLATED! I never liked her that much, and she made fun of me in gym class! She's not that great of a person. I hate her! I truly hate her! I don't know what to do! Please help me before I go crazy!
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It's not weird to feel that way, especially with someone who you don't have much in common with.
And she shouldn't be making fun on you, so that doesn't help.
I'd suggest finding other friends to sit with at lunch. If she questions, talk to her privately and let her know that you feel isolated when it's just you two sitting together at lunch.
If she doesn't get mad or anything, invite her to join you. If you really don't want to continue being friends with her, then just find other friends to hang out with.
But if you don't like her because she does all those gross things then maybe talk to her about it? I don't blame you, I wouldn't want to hang out with someone who did that stuff either.
But some people just weren't ever taught what they should and shouldn't do. So you should talk to her and let her know how you feel about all that and what's socially acceptable behaviors.
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