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Do you think my LDR boyfriend is lying to me?
Hi, so I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend since we were 15 and we are both 17 right now. We have met before and we try to video chat every weekend and a couple of other days of the week depending on how busy we are. Anyway, I really do love him so much but I do get kind of an off feeling but I am also a little more paranoid than I guess people in a normal relationship would be because we are so far away. First off, texting is the main way we communicate. Sometimes when we are texting he will disappear for a while and text back like nothing happened or say an excuse which I believe sometimes. One time it was like 3 hours and then he text back "sorry I kept dropping my phone" so ever since then I have been thinking he is making an excuse. Also somedays he stops texting at like 7 PM and text the next day that he fell asleep. He also follows mostly girls on Instagram but a lot of them do go to his school but still.. It makes me wonder like if he is seeing someone there. Once he posted a picture of me on Instagram and took it down 10 minutes later because he didn't want his friends to see what I look like incase they hit on me but I just think he doesn't want his girl friends to see me. His mom knows me and she is really nice so if he did have a girlfriend there I would hope she would tell me or something but what do you think..? Do you think he is lying or am I just really paranoid and a stalker ? Lol be honest. Thanks!
And PS I don't want you guys to think this is all he does, he just does this sometimes and he says he would never lie to me but I think he does. He is always very sweet and nice to me, calls me beautiful and says I love you everyday multiple times and we make fun of eachother and joke around so it's not like the relationship is awful. It's just in long distance relationships I don't feel like you should lie because it will lead to a lot of problems later on.. Thanks again for reading sorry it's so long
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Nah you're not being paranoid or anything. It happens to worry about this stuff sometimes. I think you should definitely confront him on it! The best thing is to always talk these things through instead of assuming, because that could turn out bad. So just have a chat with him about how you feel about this and such. You could start off by asking why he disappears like that, or lay out hints and other things, or just full on cut to the chase on the subject, but you should talk to him about it before jumping to conclusions, just in case.
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