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should I let her go or wait for her
I have a friend I was so close to. She fibbed a few times in which I questioned her about, giving her the opportunity to come clean. I feel she blew it off and kept acting like it was no big deal. Eventually it ended in us not speaking. I have made a couple efforts to text and apologize and got no response. She won't talk to MD,I know she can be like this, sometimes for weeks or months. I blocked her on Facebook since we weren't "friends" as far as I knew and knew she would creep on my page. She then tied to search me on Facebook to realize I blocked her. She got mad and started asking about me to others but won't talk to me directly. Should I let her go, even tho I still would like to work things out or wait for her, not knowing if shell ever come around?
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Maybe tell your friends not to tell her anything about you and tell them to tell her to talk to you directly. if SHE lied and did YOU wrong then shes right to not talk to you. shes obviously ashamed of what she did and doesnt want to face it. Let her suffer and think about what a great friend she lost.
No one can compare to you and she probably realizes that but doesnt want to confront or deal with any of it. ive been there and its sad when people cant just get over their pride or hang ups and just admit they did did you wrong and their sorry. *shruggs* just gotta let her live with her own mistakes for right now.
It doesnt mean you have to stop caring for her. feelings for good friends dont just died over night. Eventually she will most likely come back to you, but you have to put yourself at a distance and give her some space and continue to live your own life.
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