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Why do I feel sad
I had a wonderful time with my family but I noticed I am sad when I came home. I have notice a pattern. Whenever, I spend time at my cousins I have so much fun. But, when I come home I am sad for a little bit. Well, it could be because when I am at my family member house I laugh, I have fun. But at home (with my mom and brother) we barely interact and we are all in separate rooms. So, I am I sad because I feel like I am missing that family time? Even though I don't live alone , I feel kind of alone.
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I understand what you are saying and it is quite possible mom and your brother may feel the same way. What happens is we all get in a rut and we do things as we always do. We come home we go off and do our individual thing. You may go off to your room and play on your computer, your brother may do the same thing in his room.. Mom may go off to her room and read or watch TV or go about the 101 things moms need to do each day around the house.
IF you want change, if you want things somewhat like when you with family and friends then you have to make change happen. I would assume you all eat dinner together. This is the perfect time to say something. You could say you know it is really fun when we are with family and we are all together, then we come home and go off and do our individual things and it is somewhat of a let down. So you guys feel the same way? What do you say to some family time each week where maybe we play some games in the living room or maybe have a movie night. Things like that. Use your own words of course but make a suggestion to the types of family time you think you brother and mother would be open to.
Changes does not happen by itself someone has to be the catalyst for change. In this instance since you are wanting change you have to be the catalyst you have to do something to bring about the change you want.
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