Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday December 17 2014, 12:45 am: Most of us are all guessing at the answer to that question. Whether depressed or happy, it is a question that people end up coming up with their own theories on the reason, the meaning of life. I know I've had a vague idea most my life until recently when I began to believe in reincarnation. Many don't believe and that's fine, they'll have theories vastly different from mine. The way I believe it to be is that souls are always in a state of learning, experiencing, all for the purpose of slowly becoming more like our creator but that as the human nature is, many don't like change, even for the better so often, souls in their human body for the current life time, often refuse to change for the better. So in reality, the process is a lengthy one taking many many lives lived on earth to grow as a soul. The earth is the classroom, but think of it as a school in one of the roughest, most crime ridden neighborhoods and that is what life is like on earth. The obstacles we must face are like many varied crushing blows, that make us want to give up. Yet while we were souls ready to incarnate and we had chosen ahead of time, what we wanted to learn or accomplish, we were given choices of several different lifetimes to choose from to incarnate into to learn that special thing. Take for example the type of personal strength for a soul required to overcome and break away from verbal or physical abuse. You get to choose perhaps being born to abusive parents/parent and having to endure this as a child, or perhaps a teen girl abused by her boyfriend, or a marriage partner abused. We willingly pick the parents and the setting, however once we are living the life in our human bodies, not having any remembrance of what was going on, on the other side, on the spiritual plane, we cry, complain, give up in our life, a life we actually had part in choosing for the particular thing we wanted to learn. After living enough lives to get to the point of being ready to go from the spiritual plane into the realm of living in Gods presence, we are given a choice to enter in or refuse. God doesnt send anyone to hell. They live another life until reaching the point of ascension into heaven if thats what you want to call it. Or they choose to not want to live forever and then become as if they never were. When I look at it from this viewpoint, I am able to find ways to carry on. Right now I am going thru lots of hard things in life. The most recent, husband breaking his leg in 2 places yesterday. With no work for 3 months, that puts us behind financially with possibly no place to live. And there's more. So I cry when it gets tough to release the pressure and stress and then I pick myself up and tell myself to carry on, no matter how hard, because I want to achieve the goal I set for myself and see my life through to its planned end, rather than giving up and deciding to check out early. I believe those who end their life or incarnation early, rob themselves of the chance to 'graduate' at whatever task or experience we wanted to originally.So guess what, heaven runs by the same system schools used to do when I was little. If you don't graduate from a grade, you had to repeat it the next year or until you learned, no passing on a child who didn't get it like now-a-days. That is part of the problem, todays generation raised to expect instant everything and the world revolving around them, the world handed to them on a platter....easy. No, life is hard. It just is. The sooner we figure that out and decide to carry on thru life, with our Angels gently guiding to move us in the directions we need to go, any variety that will achieve the same lesson meant to be learned. There are multiple possibilities of what can happen to the woman who must learn something from the loss of a husband. He may be here as the one player in the plan of his wifes soul getting to experience that however what is not written in stone is how he is taken from her, how she becomes a widow. He might die, as a result of another human with their free will, chosing to kill him, or it's an accident, or he becomes ill and dies of a disease. So I hope this gives you some things to think about. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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