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boyfriend is bored
Hi!My bf is my best friends good friend.I know him for like 6 years as an acquaintance. But since the past year we started talking and started dating once he moved.I have met him in 2012.He is planning to visit me sometime next year as soon as he graduates. Im in Asia and he's in Europe so it's expensive to travel. Depending on where he gets a job..that would be the future for this relationship as well.anyways he is sure hell come back here.he has a pretty hectic schedule but he makes sure he talks to me everyday for 2-3 hours no matter what.so I was paranoid when he said hes bored.
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So you did not ask for clarification as to what he is bored with because you are afraid he will say "The relationship"? Maybe he's bored with school. And maybe bored isn't quite the right word. In any relationship, for things to go as smoothly as possible, it takes real good communication.
If the worst thing possible is true, and he has lost interest in you, that's not uncommon for a Long Distance relationship. But would you like being married someday to a man who feels lukewarm about you compared to still as attracted as in the beginning. If you don't clarify things, as much as it may hurt, you could end up unhappily married and that brings on divorce or cheating for either party. If he once showed great interest and desire, it could have been new relationship energy which seems much like the real thing but does not last. Its much like the same excitement a person has over a new gift they received but after time goes on, you don't get as excited over that gift anymore.
Woman crave attention. When they get attention from a guy, whether he's right for them or not, many will just throw their heart at him, stop thinking and start dreaming and non of it may have any reality in it. Don't let the need for attention from a man make you go for someone you think is good simply for how long you've known him.
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