Question Posted Wednesday November 26 2014, 11:02 am
I am 22 and in a LDR.my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now...the thing is we talk everyday.. Snapchat all day long!all of a sudden he says he is bored...I asked him if there is anything I can do... He said no...and asked him if he's bored of me... To which he replied no as well! I'm worried sick! Is there something wrong or am I over reacting? Do guys generally get bored easily? Please help!
adviceman49 answered Wednesday November 26 2014, 3:14 pm: This is one of those questions which we really cannot answer for you. We would need to know more information about both of you to even have a hint of what to say.
You need to ask him what he is bored about. Being in an LDR relationship is not easy. The normal things one does to keep a relationship going is hard to do view email, voicemail, texting and snapchat. Their is no substitute for you being their snuggled up against him and him against you.
He said he is not bored with you. Take him at his word or if you don't believe him. Dig deeper is the only advice I can give you at this time.
questions to needed to help you that I would need answers too.
1. Have you two ever been together in person?
2. Do you plan on meeting him or does he plan on coming to you?
3. How did you two meet? Did you meet on social media? If so what do you really know about him.
These three questions are very important to know for if you only have an on-line relationship and have never met in person. I caution you as to where you go with this. There are many people on the social media platforms who are not what the purport themselves to be. so be careful [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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