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my mom and dad are fighting,what if they get divorced!?;(
my mom and dad are fighting im afraid they will get divorced.this happend last night two. once he accually tried to leave.he thinks since my mom is on her phone all the time he thinks that she is looking for someone else.He says he has no one to talk to and my mom does,witch is sort of true.but my dad talks to alot of people and with me being 9years old my sister 4,and my brother 1 they cant afford to break up,my dads parents want them to get divorced.i need help! is there anyway to stop it without getting in troble? I NEED HELP!
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Hey sweetie!
Firstly you need to understand that every couple have their own share of fights and arguments.
When people fight and argue they do not process their thoughts and act irrationally.
One reaction could be storming off just like how your dad tried to.
So firstly you need to make sure that they can spend some alone time together.
With the stress of work and kids,parents tend to lose themselves.
So plan some dinner date or an outing that could really let them relax and enjoy.
Secondly, you can have a separate conversation with each of them, tell them how this scares you and you don't want to lose either of them.
When you show that you are worried about this, they will try to make things work and not fight.
Most importantly help them find themselves.
Looks like its the stress that affects marriages.
So help them do that :)
Hope this helps!
Good luck
PS : you can send me a message if you still need any help :)
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hey your not alone here.
My mum and dad fright and argue alot. Both my have walked out but have come back in a couple of days im 15 i have a 14 year old sister and two brothers 5 and 4 so i know that they cant afford to break up.
What i would do is sit down with my dad and talk to him know that he has me. i will then sit down with my mum and talk to her ask her why shes always on her phone. i would then get both my parents to sit down and talk to each other alone. i realize that you are still young and that this is a big issue. you have to be the adult in this situation if your parents aint. just talk to them both and see how things go from there
if you need more help you can always talk to me.
Good luck.
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