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i need a boyfriend
There's a dance coming up on dec. 21 and I really want to go. But all of my friends have dates. And we were going out to eat afterwards. I need a date but I don't know how to get one. I really wanna talk to guys and have atleast a friend to go as my date but I don't really know any guys. People always tell me I'm too pretty amd cute to be single but yet, here I am. Please help me out
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I would go with you but I am probably way to old for you and besides I'm married also I don't dance all that well just ask my wife.
All joking aside I have to assume you are young maybe 13 or 14 years old. Don't be discouraged the boys will come to you very soon. Is there a boy in your class or boys that you know or like that are not going with anyone? If so just go up to one of them and ask if they would like to be your Escort for the dance. Being your Escort is a bit different then a date.
For the boy at least it takes some of the fear out of dating. Boys of the age I assume you are at an age where girls may not yet appeal to them or if they do they scare them for they do not know how to act on a date. Being a pretty girl scares them even more for they fear you would not be interested in them.
Having once been of the age I am speaking of I know all to well what I am speaking about. If you don't believe me ask your dad. This is a very hard age for a young man as they do not mature as fast as a young women does.
My advice then is to take the bull by the horns and pick a boy you like, talk to him and then ask him to be your escort. The other alternative is to ask one of your friends if she knows someone she can ask to be your date. Possibly an older or slightly younger brother.
I hope you enjoy the dance.
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If you don't know any guys well enough to ask them out, then I suppose all you're left with is asking any random male classmate.
that's pretty awkward though.
What might work best is to ask your girlfriends with dates...to ask their dates if any of them have a friend who'd like to go to the dance but doesn't have a girl. this way, you aren't doing the asking but the guys are asking the guy to be your date.
If you're too embarassed to do that, do you by chance have a male cousin of about the right age who could go as your date?
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