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pregnant? or is it normal that my periods are late
last month my periods were 12 days late..they came on 8th of october. and lastd for 7 days. just as my normal period does. after that on 16th or 17th i gave my bf a blowjob, there were sperms on my hand which i wiped off.. and then we were sitting for about an half and hour in the ac.. and we didnt do anything.. after that i went to the washroom, washed my hands first with a water then a handwash and then wiped my hands off with tissue paper. after that i peed and cleaned my vagina with tissue paper. i got home and washed my hands thrice and after that didnt touch my vagina..my periods are irregular.but they never come before the date. on 23rd of october i experienced a brown discharge.. i have fever with neck pain and headache. what could be the reason? then again on 28th we dry humped. we are still virgins. today is 21st November and i stil havent got my periods. are they delayed or im pregnant? can sperms travel through clothes? i had my jeans on while dry humping and even he had track pants on. but he was wearing his pants very low. he was wearing underwear though. but im scared. im 17! and dont wana be pregnant. nowadays every month my periods are delayed by 10-12 days.. is it normal? please help. what could have been the reason for that discharge? first it was brown and then it was pink..it was just varying. please help
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Most sperm dies within 30 minutes outside of the body, if you washed your hands it's very unlikely it somehow traveled to your vagina and then impregnated you. Also dry-humping, giving blowjobs, have sperm ejaculated on the outside of your vagina, or being eaten out will no impregnate you. Irregular periods are very common.
Go see a doctor and get put on birth control pills, its regulates your period, plus if you decided to start having sex these will prevent you from being pregnant as long as you take one every single day and listen to your doctor.
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It is normal for teen girls to have irregular periods when they first go through puberty. And depending on when going through puberty, and a persons physiological differences, it can still be an issue later, such as 17, 18, 19 but if its still occuring at 19 to 20, you might want to see a Dr.
Sperm doesnt last long outside the body and it needs the warm moist environment of the vagina to survive long enough to have a chance. Fabric soaks up all the wetness, leaving any sperm unable to move and therefore die.
Since you mentioned fever and headache, likely you are ill or fighting off illness. That is one of the things that regularly delay a period, and the other is stress. Periods can come earlier if you are around other women having their periods.
When delayed, it is common to see a discharge of brownish liquid. It is usually followed by a pink fluid or spotting if the period is about to start.
These symptoms that come with period delay is something you will experience all your life as long as you are still having periods and is normal.
You've had a scare and can see how even if a condom were to be used to enter you, you aren't totally protected if both of you were unclothed and his cum got near entrance to vagina or deposited there but being on your or his hand that goes in the vagina. So if you intend to explore further sexually together, it would be best to get on birth control to be totally safe. Either see a family Dr. or go to Planned Parenthood. It will all be kept confidential so parents won't have to know.
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