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There´s this one boy who I used to get on really well two years ago, when we were both 14. We were in the same class and we loved each other without knowing. When he was about to leave he told said he´d liked me all this time via WhatsApp, and I nearly left my boyfriend bc of that. He went abroad and this summer we kissed in a friend´s house, all though at that moment we hadn´t talked much and didn´t fancy each other as much as before (it´s obvious,a whole year had gone by).
He wanted to continue with the relationship but I flipped him off, I had changed and I didn´t want any kind of commitment in summer. I told him that if the next year we got on well our feelings might reappear.
So, when we came back to school I tried to be friends again and so did he, but he changed his group and he became much more popular. Then I went mad at him for something and we stopped talking at all.
I didn´t think about him much until last week, when we went out for some kind of school trip. It felt like everything came back. I asked him to go for a walk with me afraid he would refuse and we talked about what had happened between us. I realized it had been my fault, but now I think I like him again and I really doubt he likes me back.
My question is, should I write him on Whatsapp and give him one more signal or just forget about him and let him be? Because I really change my mind quickly and I don´t want him to think I want to date him now that he´s become more popular.
I don´t know if I´ve expressed myself right but I really need help. (link)
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Ah, love at it's finest. First of all, know what love is, just because you may really like someone does not mean you might love them.
If you really want to fix things, don't text him, tell him to his face. Tell him that you're growing new feelings for him and want to start talking.
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I'm 15(16 in Feb.), female, 5ft. 7inch. and weighed 125, but now is 119.
A little back story, when I was in my mothers womb, I was very active and caused a 'true knot' in my umbilical cord(we don't know for sure, but my dad said it was wrapped around my neck). I was born by C-section and the doctors said I was lucky to have survived. I was 6 pounds 4ounces and malnourished.
I have always been very skinny, to where people(including my older siblings) would ask my parents if they were feeding me. Even though I ate normal, if not more than I should. In middle school, I gained weight and while I was still thin, I was normal looking.
I continued normal weight, until a few months ago when I for some reason just didn't feel like eating as much. To which, I love to eat. It's been steadily getting worse.
I suddenly can't eat as much as I used to, or want to. I am hungry but either wont want to eat at all or/and start eating and after a few bites have to force myself to eat more(Even if it's my favorite food) and feel like if I eat one more bite, I'll vomit.
At first I wasn't very concerned until I realized I lost 6 pounds. Clothes are starting to be baggy on me and standing up you can see my hipbones clearly and if I lift my arms you can see and count my ribs.
My friends seriously think I'm anorexic, but I know I'm not because I want to gain weight and I love food. I want to be able to eat more...
Please anything you can tell me would help... (link)
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Talk to a doctor definitely. f you're depressed that could also be a problem (talk to a counselor)but my neighbors wife had the same problem. Eating was just something she didn't do, so by her request I bought weed for her and that helped. Just smoking it once helped her regain her eating.
This is an option, but try my other two approaches first. It's just an alternative if all else fails.
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why a 14 years child lie and what to do (link)
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Lying is a part of our DNA. You lie, she lies, the president lies, the cashier lies. It's not a big deal unless it is constant or unnecessary. If you want her/him to stop lying, sit them down and talk to them. Get to know your child, but to do this you cannot be judgmental, you're their parent and you love them no matter what. You will always be their parent, but you can also be their friend.
Open up to them, and hopefully they'll open up to you.
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Hi i am a girl # 14 i get really bad period cramps and can not finde any thing that works help !!! ):
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IBuprofen if very helpful for me. If that does not work talk to your mom or speak with a doctor that can recommend something. If not, exercising or curling up in fetal position help me.
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So I have been in a relationship for the last year with a man. (I am female) I love him very much and picture one day marrying him and having children. But over the years I often fantasize about women and sleeping with women. I am sexually satisfied by my boyfriend and don't always think about women but I do sometimes. And to be frank it really unnerves me. I don't know what this means or what to make of it. I am a grown women, shouldn't I know my sexuality by now? (link)
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That is completely normal! I sometimes fantasize sex with a woman as well. What isn't hot about two lesbians? If your man satisfies you, then you have nothing to worry about. You're obviously straight if you wish to marry him and see yourself living the rest of your life with him.
If you're curious though, kill the curiosity. Get drunk and kiss a girl for the hell of it, or maybe have a threesome to spice up your sex life. I'm sure your husband wouldn't mind haha.
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My whole life, I've had a terrible habit. I bite off the skin in my mouth; Kind of where my lips are, but on the inside of my mouth. I do this everyday and I want to stop it... I do it when I'm anxious, nervous, or just thinking. Whenever new skin grows, I peel it off with my teeth. My mouth eventually bleeds, but stops after awhile. This is a habit I just can't seem to break. Chewing gum works, but only for awhile. What can I do? (link)
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Wow, I've never heard of this habit. I used to bite my nail, but I've recently stopped. Here are some tips that help:
-Stay in a conversation; if you're talking, you're not biting
-chew gum, like you said it helps
-drink water whenever you feel like it
-listen to music to take your mind off of it
-Think. Think about how bad that is, just think how great it would be if you stopped.
You honestly want to stop it, so stop it. Habits are like running, when you get tired and think you have to stop you don't actually have to stop. You're just tired. It's all about the mind, believe you can stop and you will. DON'T GIVE IN!
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last month my periods were 12 days late..they came on 8th of october. and lastd for 7 days. just as my normal period does. after that on 16th or 17th i gave my bf a blowjob, there were sperms on my hand which i wiped off.. and then we were sitting for about an half and hour in the ac.. and we didnt do anything.. after that i went to the washroom, washed my hands first with a water then a handwash and then wiped my hands off with tissue paper. after that i peed and cleaned my vagina with tissue paper. i got home and washed my hands thrice and after that didnt touch my vagina..my periods are irregular.but they never come before the date. on 23rd of october i experienced a brown discharge.. i have fever with neck pain and headache. what could be the reason? then again on 28th we dry humped. we are still virgins. today is 21st November and i stil havent got my periods. are they delayed or im pregnant? can sperms travel through clothes? i had my jeans on while dry humping and even he had track pants on. but he was wearing his pants very low. he was wearing underwear though. but im scared. im 17! and dont wana be pregnant. nowadays every month my periods are delayed by 10-12 days.. is it normal? please help. what could have been the reason for that discharge? first it was brown and then it was pink..it was just varying. please help
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Most sperm dies within 30 minutes outside of the body, if you washed your hands it's very unlikely it somehow traveled to your vagina and then impregnated you. Also dry-humping, giving blowjobs, have sperm ejaculated on the outside of your vagina, or being eaten out will no impregnate you. Irregular periods are very common.
Go see a doctor and get put on birth control pills, its regulates your period, plus if you decided to start having sex these will prevent you from being pregnant as long as you take one every single day and listen to your doctor.
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So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years this month. I can honestly say he is the one I want to spend my life with and we've discussed plans to get married within the next couple of years. He's funny, charming, and as cliche as this sounds, he's been my rock through some very hard times. I recently lost my father and he has been supportive in every way.
However, he is slightly narcissistic and it drives me crazy. I rarely voice my feelings when he does something small that upsets me, because I don't want to cause an argument if I can simply get over it. So when I do confront him, it's because I am very upset. But even when I calmly tell him why he has upset me, he tells me that I'm overreacting. He never thinks that he does anything wrong.
For example, we have a long distance relationship. He said that he'd be leaving Monday to come stay with me for a couple days. Monday came and I was so excited. I called him to see what time he'd be leaving and he said "I'm not coming until tomorrow. My boss really needed me to take an extra shift so I couldn't say no." I asked him when his boss asked him to do that, and it had been several days before and he just didn't tell me. When I told him that I was upset, he got angry and told me that I was being inconsiderate and that he has a responsibility to show up for his job. I totally understand that and had no problem with him picking up a shift for his boss; I was upset about him not telling me that during one of our many conversations about our plans for Monday. He told me that I was overreacting and that just because I was going through a hard time doesn't mean I can treat him like crap. I told him that it's unfair to turn every fight around on me. If I'm upset with him, he never apologizes. My being angry is a result of something else like "being on my period" or "going through a tough time." HE NEVER DOES ANYTHING WRONG.
And it's not just when we fight. He thinks that all of his interests are exciting and mine are not. While I listen to him talk about football for hours on end and I do actively listen and respond, when I talk about something I like, he immediately says things like "why do you like that? that's so boring"
We go to the mall and he complains the WHOLE time, even though we never spend more than 2 hours there and he has stores that he likes to go in. In fact, we go in the stores he likes, and he shows me every little thing that catches his eye, and if we spend more than 5 minutes in a women's store, he starts complaining or talking about how ugly everything is.
He said he hates the mall because walking around for that long hurts his back. (I suppose he wants me to feel bad) but when he wants to golf, we'll spend anywhere from 2-5 hours on the course and his back is FINE.
I don't know if he acts this way because he's an only child and his parents worship the ground he walks on, but I'm about to go crazy. Normally I wouldn't stand for this kind of behavior, but otherwise he's an amazing boyfriend, and really does do so much for me. He's not selfish by any means, he takes me out on dates all the time, and really does treat me like a queen... but he's also very into himself. That's why I don't know how to bring this up to him. He'll get mad and think I'm being ridiculous, even if I point out the facts and all the times he's been rude to me.
How do you tell a narcissist that they're doing something wrong? (link)
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Sounds like a very difficult situation you're in. If you plan on being married to him, I'd say just get used to being treated like this for the rest of your life. In my opinion if I were in your shoes I sit him down, face to face and before voicing any opinions I'd say this: "We are going to have a serious conversation. There will be no yelling or interruption one another, we will be civilized. You may leave at any point, but if you leave don't bother on coming back because if you cannot handle sorting through something as small as this, we weren't meant to be."
Then explain to him your side, tell him what he does you don't like and how it makes you feel so insignificant. Make him understand that this is a relationship, you two are a couple and couples are two people. That means you have differences and similarities. Both sides are very important and vital to the relationship.
If you truly wish to spend the rest of your life with him, make sure he values your opinion and you yourself because you are your opinion. And if he doesn't value that he doesn't value you.
In theory he will apologize, you will apologize, and then live a much happier and respected life.
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hey , so i got accepted at CSI , (college of staten island) , its my first day but the people their are not SOCIABLE AT ALL!!.like i only made 1 friend , and im the one who started talking. i dont wanna do it , but i want friends ,why cant people be sociable. (link)
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Making friends can be very hard indeed. I remember I once went on a vacation for a week and knew no one, I also remember tweeting "I can't make friends" "Making friends is so hard" "what r friends"... long story short I was very lonely. Until a crazy drunk woman was dancing and the grandson started to talk to me because I was laughing. By the end I made a ton of friends.
College is a huge transition, but a good one. Colleges also have many clubs and sports to join. Start there. They may even have a club for new people, I know some do. Join a club or a sport that interests you, even if no one talks on the first day, eventually you'll find similar interests with several people in which you'll bond with.
Just stay strong, enjoy the lonesomeness because soon you'll have tons of friends and long nights of partying (if you're into that) Just make sure you get your work done!
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