if you bleed while rubbing down there what does it mean?
Question Posted Friday October 24 2014, 12:35 pm
For us to lose virginity through fingering does our finger has to go really deep
is it possible that you bleed while rubbing your pussy? And if you do bleed while rubbing what does that mean?please tell I'm really worried
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity? Dragonflymagic answered Saturday October 25 2014, 7:49 pm: Just to give you a visual to go along with what you've already been told, imagine pulling a stocking tightly over one end of an empty toilet paper roll. the roll represents your vagina. Snip a hole the size of a dime in the middle of the stocking portion covering the tube end. The hole is where your period fluids come out by each month. The rest of the stocking around it represents your hymen. There can be variations where a strip of hymen is attached only in the middle creating two smaller holes side by side but it's rare. Use of a tampon or fingers will stretch that hymen out until it no longer shows as a covering to the entrance of the vagina. Many females find their hymen stretches just fine without tearing. The story that all women will bleed from there while using tampons, dildos, finger, or even a penis entering, is just a bunch of baloney. But in so many countries yet, men believe this so strongly to be true that a women who does not bleed is assumed to not be a virgin even if she is.
If you bleed from a scratch, it should be nothing more than a couple of drops. Make sure you use lots of lube, even for rubbing or using fingers, toys or penis. Even men can find the skin on their penis tear if there isn't enough lube with sex. They may not bleed but it feels sore like a paper cut cus its a fine rip or tear.
You most likely are seeing the little blood right before a period. You probably just timed it with your period.
As for any damage caused to your insides, cervix and all, you probably have no worries. After all in my regular checkups as has been drilled into me, the Drs say to come in to see them if you experience any pains that don't go away or extra heavy bleeding that won't stop. Those are the symptoms of something serious possibly being wrong. Otherwise, its probably your timing, the masturbating happening near your period cus we tend to be more horny then. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Saturday October 25 2014, 10:16 am: First: You do not lose your virginity through fingering not by today's definition of virginity. By today's definition of virginity one loses their virginity when a penis penetrates a vagina. Whichever partner is a virgin prior to penetration they are no longer a virgin once penetration happens.
At one time several generations ago for a women it was the tearing of her Hymen that meant she was no longer a virgin and it was expected she would be a virgin on her wedding night. In the really old days the wedding night was spent at the girls parents house and it was expected that there would be blood on the sheets. In the morning mom would hang the sheets out the bedroom window to show the neighbors that indeed her daughter was pure when she married.
Today women are more athletic and more experimental with sex. It is very possible that when she does lose her virginity that through exercise, dance or sexual experimentation such as fingering she will have already lost or torn her Hyman. For this reason the definition of virgins has changed to what I first wrote.
Now it is possible to bleed while fingering yourself or being fingered by someone else. You could tear or scratch your Hyman causing you to bleed or if you or your partner have long fingernails you may cut an inner wall of your vagina causing some bleeding.
Now if you are really penetrating yourself or being penetrated deeply by someone it might be possible that you injured your womb. If the bleeding does not stop on its own you should see a gynecologist for help, especially if you want to have children in later life. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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