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Big virgin tease ! (female)
So my boufriend & I have been dating for about two weeks but known eachother for about 5 months . He and I are both virgins but we love to mess with eachother ex. I'll rub mu butt on him while we are cuddling or brush against his private kinda slowly on purpose and he'll rub mu body & get to this spot that I just bite my lip at when he touches but anyway we made a promise to wait until we both graduate h.s for sex but until then I still want to have fun . Like what are some intimate games that don't require too much money. I want the games to get to the point when he is almost aroused & he's begging for me. (We don't have oral or anal)
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I feel like I just read a porno.
If you're ready, the only thing you can do now is wait for him to be ready BUT always use protection I don't care if your on birth control or not. It doesn't always work. He maybe just nervous. I mean if he's a virgin he is going to be thinking "am I doing it right?", "does she enjoy it?", ect. Don't pressure him into it though. The longer you wait the better. I'm 18 still in school, senior, and pregnant with a man who treats me like shit. It's no fun.
Just be smart.
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If you were an adult or married and wanted intimate games to spice up the sex life, I'd be glad to answer. Here's something you haven't considered and so, it's not what you asked and probably not what you want to hear.
You are playing dangerous if you wish to play intimate games dear. Wanting to get a young man to the point of "almost aroused" doesn't exist. Men skip that. Maybe women can be almost aroused but what you need to know is that younger men go from not aroused to instantly aroused in seconds. And that includes erections. (Older men may slow down as far as getting erect, but they can still feel desire and feel aroused without the erection.) Once there,s the erection, there is no safe buffer zone other than both your will powers to wait until after H.S. And the day will come when most people in the heat of the moment just want to savor the experience and go all the way. And people with your intent to wait, will not be prepared, not have condoms at the ready or her on birth control and then of course is the risk of pregnancy.
If you have a guy begging for you because you worked him all up, virgin or not, the guy can eventually come to the point of resenting that.
Heres my thinking on that using an analogy.
A mom bakes a batch of cookies. They are now done but she tells her child, you can't have any, only after supper. Yet the Mother constantly teases the child by bringing it past the childs nose, Here smell it dear, doesn't it smell good, I bet you want this but you will have to resist and wait until after supper. Next she puts the cookie in her childs hand, saying, you can only hold it but not eat it, not until after supper.
Perhaps an odd child or two may have the willpower to wait, but theres a good chance some children would sneak just one bite, or sneak a whole cookie, so overwhelm by mom's teasing.
If you were witnessing this Mom teasing her child so, and not ready to give him/her the cookie, wouldn't you think it cruel to treat ones child so? Same thing here dear. If you intend to tease him to the point he is ready to have sex with you and not deliver, that is cruel and one day it may backfire on you. I am not saying that you are a cruel person, just that you were thinking more about how you would enjoy the feeling of power women feel being able to do that to their guy and not seeing this from another point of view, mainly the guys. If you go through with this, it won't be long before he's begging for the oral and anal, because the tension is too great. And once there, its to easy to slip past that and without the intention to do so, get pregnant.
If the draw for you to have foreplay, mutual masturbation and sex is too strong for you to wait until graduation, may I suggest he buy condoms for STD protection and you make a visit to Planned Parenthood for birth control pills. They do see teen agers and give out birth control and it's confidential, parents won't know unless you tell them.
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