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I want to be his frined again?


Question Posted Wednesday October 15 2014, 5:27 pm


Here is the story, I liked my teacher mr. nelson and he favorites different students but I don't think he favorites me at all. So since hes my former teacher I started following him on twitter and we were talking for a while but I intiated most of the conversation. While we were talking I got annoyed that he wasn't replying so I decided to block him on twitter then after that icouldnt see his profile and he could not see mine. so then he blocked me then unblocked me and I sent him an email saying im sorry and everything. so then he unblocked me and let me follow him on twitter again. Now if he was annoyed by me why would he not follow me anymore but let me follow him on twitter? Im so confused if he liked me or not. And another issue is he put on twitter I wish jesse still went to (my old high school) but he didn't do that for me. he must like jesse better. :( jesse likeshim back too anyway. should I just give up. and also one of his reasons for not talking to me which he said in a message was "Im not mad at you ive just been really busy." I don't go to that high school anymore so how can I get ahold of him and ask why he is ignoring me. he talks to other girls from my high but he wont talk to me on twitter. How do I get him back.


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Dragonflymagic answered Wednesday October 15 2014, 11:11 pm:
I don't understand the thing about keeping in touch with teachers and making them your friends, even after graduating. It seems to be a thing that is common only in the last decade? Even my daughters never had desires to keep in touch with their teachers after high school.
friending and unfriending on facebook/twitter or any other net venue and having hurt feelings or jealous feelings because of it...well in short, lets say...theres more to life than internet "friends' Whether peers or teachers. I find that in my life, people I personally know who felt the same as you, basically didn't have a life of their own, and some had no self esteem or low one.
I wonder if this is a form of crushing on ones teacher, current one or past one. Imagine if you were a teacher and each school year, five students out of 5 classes wanted to make you their friend. thats 25 students per year clamoring for your personal attention and convo's with them. If you were doing nothing but keeping in contact with old student fans all day, you wouldnt have time to teach or have your own life anymore. Hon, it just isn't realistic to expect a teacher to remain in touch with All past students, let alone be friends with them.

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